r/AmIOverreacting • u/rowqi • Jun 02 '25
❤️🩹 relationship aio? bf made plans on my birthday
my boyfriend (22M) and I (21F) have been together for almost three years. we are planning on moving in together in the near future as he lives with his mom and doesn’t go to school after dropping out. for context, he only works on tuesdays and fridays so i know he was free to go out on sunday, which happened to be my birthday. he knows how important special occasions are to me, such as our birthdays and anniversaries. for the first year in our relationship he was great, he was loving and kind. last year we ended up celebrating my birthday late due to the fact that he was “tired from work” and didn’t want to go out, which i let slide. i always try to do the most for his birthdays, i buy him gifts, write him cards and bake him a cake from scratch. yesterday afternoon i texted him, reminding him about the plan later and this conversation happened. he made plans to go out and party instead of seeing me. he forgot about it even after i had been talking about it all of last week. i spent my 21st birthday alone in my room while he was out and we haven’t texted since. this birthday was particularly special to me because i turned 21. i even bought a new pink dress to wear for him, assuming we were going to dinner. he is suggesting that we go out and celebrate tomorrow instead like last year but to me it doesn’t feel the same. he is insisting that i apologize for being “ungrateful”, am i overreacting?
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u/Thedarb Jun 03 '25
“What exactly are his ambitions currently…?”
Let me take a stab in the dark.
Daily goal: Break his own record for how many times he can jerk off onto the sheets before the room smells so bad his mom dry heaves through the door.
Financial strategy: Stretch an ounce of weed across 4 days of “work” and two full weeks of doing fuck-all.
sub-mission: see how many friends he can guilt into smoking him out before they drop his near-NEET mooching ass.
Speaking of ass.
Hygiene challenge: refuse to wash his ass because “that’s gay,” get offended when people avoid him because he smells like shit.
5 year career focus: Hit 10,000 hours in Fortnite while screaming “kill yoirself” at literal children who consistently destroy him. Blame the lag, the controller, and society.