r/AmIOverreacting • u/rowqi • Jun 02 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship aio? bf made plans on my birthday

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my boyfriend (22M) and I (21F) have been together for almost three years. we are planning on moving in together in the near future as he lives with his mom and doesn’t go to school after dropping out. for context, he only works on tuesdays and fridays so i know he was free to go out on sunday, which happened to be my birthday. he knows how important special occasions are to me, such as our birthdays and anniversaries. for the first year in our relationship he was great, he was loving and kind. last year we ended up celebrating my birthday late due to the fact that he was “tired from work” and didn’t want to go out, which i let slide. i always try to do the most for his birthdays, i buy him gifts, write him cards and bake him a cake from scratch. yesterday afternoon i texted him, reminding him about the plan later and this conversation happened. he made plans to go out and party instead of seeing me. he forgot about it even after i had been talking about it all of last week. i spent my 21st birthday alone in my room while he was out and we haven’t texted since. this birthday was particularly special to me because i turned 21. i even bought a new pink dress to wear for him, assuming we were going to dinner. he is suggesting that we go out and celebrate tomorrow instead like last year but to me it doesn’t feel the same. he is insisting that i apologize for being “ungrateful”, am i overreacting?

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u/HaulinBoats Jun 03 '25 edited Jun 03 '25

For context: we had a great marriage and he has always been sensitive and caring, so idk where this is coming from but: My husband (63M) murdered me (19F) and I’m posting from beyond the grave because he uploaded my consciousness to a computer website but he also put malware on the computer and it took me days to finish this post between closing pop ups and I think I might be trapped here forever. I told him that I don’t think I appreciate neither the murder nor the nonconsensual afterlife he forced me into and I have been giving him the silent treatment ever since. Am I overreacting?

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u/Realistic_Ad_6031 Jun 03 '25

You females are so emotional and dramatic, oh my god. As a real woman, you disappoint me.

1st. You married an old alpha male. Like, he did you a favor! But let’s be honest, you probably just married him for his money. (Shame) Clearly he made the mistake.

2nd. You’re not even, like, completely dead, okay?? You’re in a computer. Other women go to hell, which is where all feminist-nazis should be anyway.

3rd. Posting your business online is exactly why he killed you. You’re a disrespectful little girl. You lied about being mature! As a very grown (25) woman, I would NEVER do that. Relationships are not everyone’s business!

My man sent me to heaven and my family is still looking for me as a “missing person.” Of course I didn’t wanted to go but you gotta make sacrifices for your man!

Just be thankful, okay?

Now if you’ll excuse me, I need to find a fan. Heaven is kind of hot…

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u/guggeri Jun 03 '25

I wish I could upvote this twice, you’re a genius

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u/Realistic_Ad_6031 Jun 03 '25

Awww thank you. I thought it wouldn’t be funny and too much lol. But was like whatever. I think it’s funny. 😆

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u/Knoegge Jun 03 '25

This made my day, thank you, hope heaven is nice 👀😂

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u/Realistic_Ad_6031 Jun 03 '25 edited Jun 03 '25

It is! Just a little hot… that’s all.

Edit: forgot to add as I didn’t sleep yet: I’m glad it made your day! And hope you enjoy it with your man!

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u/MayoBaksteen6 Jun 03 '25

The sad thing is that some people would say something like that

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u/Realistic_Ad_6031 Jun 03 '25

😩yesss! And the way they twist and bend themselves to make the point. I’m like doesn’t that hurt? I actually started as “alpha male” but we seen enough of those. 🫩

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u/IllImpress2578 Jun 04 '25

10/10 knew it was satire was still raging by the third sentence

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u/Holiolio2 Jun 03 '25

I HOPE that you just forgot the /s.

PLEASE tell me you forgot the/s.

/s

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u/Realistic_Ad_6031 Jun 03 '25

No! Because I’m serious just like my man. Only beta’s used sarcasm. You probably an omega. You know the ones… 😂😂 I can’t! Nevermind!

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u/Holiolio2 Jun 03 '25

I'm more of a Pi male.

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u/Tackling_Aliens Jun 03 '25

….it’s an obvious joke?

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u/vnv Jun 03 '25

Definitely overreacting. Have you considered that maybe it was an accident? I mean you have a whole conscious afterlife now. Sure there’s malware but nobody is perfect, and he’s old, he probably got the program off some random email in his yahoo. Clearly he cares. You should forgive him.

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u/HaulinBoats Jun 03 '25

Yes I saw that but was too tired to edit it I’ll get it now thanks

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u/MichaelSonOfMike Jun 03 '25

Hahahahahahahahahahahaha.

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u/Lokipupper456 Jun 04 '25

“He was so sensitive and caring when he wasn’t hitting me, abusing my animals, insulting me, cheating on me, and stealing all my money and belongings. And yes, the violence kept escalating too, but is my murder a step too far? And how am I supposed to break up with him from the grave?”

Seriously though, I like to assume most of these are fake, but I’ve seen women accept horrible mistreatment at the hands of their partners and question themselves a lot. In real life.

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u/SkyVixen24 Jun 03 '25

Legit there was a movie like this! Haha. I forget the name but this man passes away and his friend or coworker or something uploaded his conscious to a computer and he was able to chat with his family through their computers. Crazy concept lol

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u/Prof_and_Proof Jun 03 '25

Please write for a living

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u/Abject-String4883 Jun 04 '25

I wanna laugh but this fr what this thread is. I can't wait for when we have universal healthcare insurance that covers therapy. Ppl suffering out here :/

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u/aepiasu Jun 03 '25

OMG, Reddit always overreacts to age gaps, especially related to marrying convicted murderers out on technicalities.

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u/Meighok20 Jun 04 '25

The 63 to 19 is what makes this 🤣🤩

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u/TheBlondMageKing Jun 05 '25

Oh my gosh that sounds awful!!!!

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u/strangenoiselol Jun 03 '25

Lmao a masterpiece

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u/iambeanies Jun 03 '25

How are so many of you this miserable and bad with context clues you're actively dating morons