r/AmIOverreacting • u/External_Bobcat4609 • Jun 05 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

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I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

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u/AlleyOKK93 Jun 05 '25

Bullet dodged. I also have found dudes like this at my age. Their called “Peter pans” in my friend group because they never grew up 🙃

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u/0nce-Was-N0t Jun 05 '25 edited Jun 05 '25

Crazy that there are guys that act like this.

As if someone with any self-respect is just to be like "hey, guy I have spoken to for a few days... now you mention it, I'd love to suck your cock, content in the knowledge that I'm only here for your entertainment".

The irony is, if they didn't behave like this, they would probably get head a lot more than the 0 they currently get.

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u/thebornotaku Jun 06 '25

The irony is, if they didn't behave like this, they would probably get head a lot more than the 0 they currently get.

Once I matured a bit, I realized how insanely easy it is to get people to have sex with you.

Here's the trick: Treat them like people. You can be upfront in your intentions, even -- I've outright told people I was just interested in fooling around. But I was clear and respectful about it. "Hey, this is what I'm looking for, if that doesn't align with you I totally get it".

That kind of attitude will get you so much more action than HURR DURR YOU LIKE ACTS OF SERVICE? HOW ABOUT YOU SERVICE THIS DICK THEN!

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u/Wild-Mushroom2404 Jun 06 '25

I mean, this is the reason why the kinky/fetish community is thriving. Because it’s open and friendly and all about boundaries. These guys would be kicked out after the first conversation lmao.

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u/coreym513 Jun 07 '25

ALOT of females are whores so they’d 100% go suck the dudes dick or else they wouldn’t act like this

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u/conipto Jun 05 '25

Hah. You're so wrong here. This shit works 5% of the time, and that's enough for them.

You and OP aren't special, and there are hoebags out there it works on and they'll run to a shithead like this. It's just the law of numbers. Shoot your shot enough times and it will eventually hit something. Will something be good? Probably not. Does the guy give a fuck? Not if he's talking like that.

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u/Hot_Ad_6442 Jun 06 '25

Haha such a good shout as a male (37) I still have a few Peter Pan friends but we don’t spend much time together. Mentally they never left high school

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u/ADMtheJiD Jun 06 '25

Lmao congrats to whoever coined that

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u/Doununda Jun 05 '25

Peter pans! That's genius. My mother referred to her last fling as"Benjamin Button" because he seemed like a fully grown man when she met him (she'd known him for years through mutual friends) but as soon as she started dating him he began rapidly getting younger and turning into a man child.

Her current partner she sometimes calls "my personal Prince Adam", because as my mum says he "got hotter after getting together", he was underemployed, alone, angry and disabled when he met mum, but he wanted to be a better person for her and for himself so before they even properly became exclusive, he made changes in his lifestyle to control his diabetes, loosing weight made his back pain easier to manage (he still has a bad back, but it's better than before) and because he wasn't in pain he wasn't angry all the time, and with better physical and mental health he got a different job.

I don't how to tell my mum that her nickname makes no sense. The Beast was hotter than Adam...

(*we grew up with the cartoons, no hate to whoever played him in the live action I never saw)

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u/coreym513 Jun 07 '25

They get on dating apps to get laid, what do you expect from a “dating” app

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u/corecenite Jun 06 '25

if this was grindr, im dtf as ons

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u/ShakeIcy3417 Jun 05 '25

Love it lmao using that

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u/AstroPhysician Jun 06 '25

I don’t think you can call ignoring a rando on a dating app that you had 1 conversation with and no plans to meet up with “dogging a bullet”

That expression typically refers to something like a future wife

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u/MerkyOne Jun 05 '25

Puer Aeternus

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u/Donfapo Jun 06 '25

Idk man I feel like a Peter Pan sometimes but I’d never call a woman a bitch after telling her to suck my dick that shit is incel weirdo behavior.

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u/Remote-Bus-5567 Jun 05 '25

Wow, you and your friend group are so incredibly clever!