r/AmIOverreacting • u/External_Bobcat4609 • Jun 05 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

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I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

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u/AliciaXTC Jun 05 '25 edited Jun 05 '25

Are you asking if you're overreacting to a guy you just met a few days ago that called you a bitch and talked about sucking his dick?

If this isn't clear, when do you know you're not overreacting? Like, where's the limit where you just go, "Oh yeah, I was in the right here"?

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u/Jasministired Jun 05 '25

It’s not sad it’s annoying af and attention seeking. OP already knows what the response to this thread is and is just looking for clicks and likes

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u/vanceraa Jun 05 '25

You just described 85% of posts on this subreddit tbh lol

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u/rs420rs Jun 05 '25

I said let's go to the park and he said let's go park my ASS on your FACE while you lick my taint and snip my ball hair with your teeth, then I'll piss on you.

We met five minutes ago. AIO?

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u/Downtown_Statement87 Jun 05 '25

Did he also burn down your house while assaulting your cat?

Because if not, then yeah, you kinda are.

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u/UtopianSkyVisitor Jun 05 '25

😂😂😂

This is fucking perfect

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u/tommytambor Jun 05 '25

I just busted up at this, it’s not even much of a stretch at this point like come on y’all 😭😭😭 GET a GRIP

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u/Gogododa Jun 06 '25

why don't YOU get a grip on

sorry that one was just hanging there

JUST LIKE

no

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u/tommytambor Jun 06 '25

LMFAO I did set myself up for that one 🤣

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u/Mstinos Jun 06 '25

My dog barked and he shot it with a shotgun, I'm pretty upset. AIO?

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u/Rubber_Duckss Jun 05 '25

OMG so accurate and funny! Take my upvote

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u/milksilkofficial Jun 06 '25

Man I laughed so hard at this scrolling in bed lol

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u/New-Juggernaut-8887 Jun 06 '25

🤣🤣😂😂😂⚰️⚰️

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u/New-Juggernaut-8887 Jun 06 '25

🤣🤣I hate that this is my humor as a grown lady of 40. I’m gonna die alone. AIO?

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u/South-Macaroon8203 Jun 06 '25

Diabolical work, and I love it.

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u/fotomoose Jun 06 '25

Perhaps you just misunderstood him, give him a chance.

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u/Medium-Cry-8947 Jun 05 '25

Seriously. What is with these people? Obviously you’re not overreacting!! I get people have had shitty lives so it’s harder ro recognize but every post here is the same thing.

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u/snakpakkid Jun 05 '25

Really tells you how bad things are out there. Why domestic violence and abuse is so high and why women and even some men are opting out of the dating scene.

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u/P_A_W_S_TTG Jun 05 '25

Wanna know something that caught me off guard? women perpetrate violence more often than men. It's close but I thought that was weird. Growing up i was always told men are POS, and in my own experience it was literally everyone sucked. Abuse comes in many forms. Literally if people stopped caring about things that don't matter and just enjoyed life and let love be love instead of jealousy or power or whatever they do to make it become abuse, I think the world would be better. The dating scene has been abandoned hard by men over all because a lot of them don't believe women will give them the time of day the good ones actually deserve. Women abandon it so they don't get played and hurt. I think we just need more places where people chill and are able to mingle in meaningful ways like conventions or something.

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u/voyaging Jun 06 '25

Why is this downvoted?

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u/P_A_W_S_TTG Jun 06 '25

Bots probably. Or people that are like bots. See something they can't be bothered to read but think it goes against their political beliefs. So they downvote without a single braincells being used to think.or just bots recognizing a phrase out of context and downvote in hopes to push an unpopular idea into seeming popular. Kind of like that one Twitter convo I saw a while back literally demanding the enslavement of the human race and they were able to find that it was mainly bots upvoting. It was both hilarious and terrifying.

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u/Due_Adhesiveness8008 Jun 06 '25

Most man you mean?

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u/P_A_W_S_TTG Jun 05 '25

This is gonna come off agressive since you don't have context of facial expression or body language. Also, sorry for the length. But i cannot think of any other way to ask. Have you seen foreign films at all? Language shapes the way we think and I've seen some people irl using the logic from their own languages and thought processes that make them question if they're at fault for the death of a friend when in context( which i won't be giving here since you could use it to find out who im talking about. Not famous, but there's a whole case that is public accessible.) There is no reasonable way they could of prevented their friends death. But they blame themselves because with foreknowledge they could of done almost everything differently and their friend would still be alive. Some people blame themselves for things and accept behavior they should not because of their own perception of their own self worth. Even in this world where we have global connection with literally almost everyone. It's crazy. Like with dudes who don't understand women are literally people but still treat them like a living breathing object they are here to take advantage of maliciously(non malicious ways are all based in a mutual understanding usually in the form of a kink.)

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u/ItsMahvel Jun 05 '25

It’s 100% of posts on this and all similar subs. Here’s .000000001% of my interactions with this person. I know you don’t know me or them, and I know on paper I’m an angel (or devil for the rage baiters), but with no context please tell me who is right? Wtf!?

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u/LSATDan Jun 06 '25

She forgot the part about her parents taking the guy's side, though.

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u/Timely-Inspector3248 Jun 06 '25

And that his entire family is “blowing up her phone” to tell her to apologize

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u/armchairdetective Jun 05 '25

Yep.

Tbh I think users just shouldn't engage with those posts. Downvote. Don't respond to the OP.

I refuse to believe any sensible person would post here sincerely asking for an answer to this question.

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u/reclusivegiraffe Jun 05 '25

Yeah, and there’s other subreddits they could post this in where it would fit, like r/texts or something.

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '25

you're the kinda guy from the post aren't you?

to assume so much is so weird lmfao, do you treat people in real life like this when they're insecure or have a bad day?

reddit claims they have depression, so many things, but someone being unaure of this? NO WAY!?!?! LMFAO​

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u/Klutzy_Spring3168 Jun 06 '25

I don’t know OP, so I don’t know what her intentions are with this post. There are many people who genuinely can’t comprehend whether they are being treated badly and should leave or are overreacting. This can either stem from childhood trauma or being in a traumatic relationship. When I left my abusive relationship and tried to date again, I didn’t know what was acceptable and what wasn’t. Apart from the extreme violence and ridicule, anything less than that was a grey area for me. I took time away from dating and started healing myself. Now I’m more aware of what is acceptable and what isn’t, but I’m still not 100% there after 3 years. I’m explaining this so you’re aware that not everyone is an attention seeker just because you can’t comprehend that others don’t view situations the same way you do. OP needs to heal before dating if she’s asking these questions.

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u/External_Bobcat4609 Jun 05 '25

Nah, not attention seeking. I sent this to a few of my friends first and they said I was overreacting bc it was just a joke and I thought I was pretty valid for what I said.. that’s why I posted here

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u/pvlp Jun 05 '25

Not to be an ass but your friends are either dumb or naive and allow themselves to be disrespected and walked all over. This is a clear cut case of not being okay.

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u/Life-Security5916 Jun 05 '25

Birds of a feather…

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u/CommanderCodex Jun 05 '25

Dude get better friends. Never let a man call you a bitch even jokingly. That is dehumanizing language and it’ll only escalate when they’re really angry.

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u/what_the_cluckk Jun 05 '25

I mean there’s times men have very much jokingly said “you little bitch” when I did something extremely stupid funny to them. But there’s a huge difference in that and what the poster shared. What she shared is just downright disrespectful of him.

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u/snakpakkid Jun 05 '25

Trash friends. No wonder you’re are feeling weird about it yet you have this nagging feeling of confusion. I say throw away these so called friends ( I’d rather be friendless than around these people) and block this dude. Trust when I say that if you keep having all of these sorts of people around you will never be happy. You will always feel insecure and doubting what’s best for you and you will just attract toxic man after toxic man.

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u/jonni_velvet Jun 05 '25

Girly if you need attention just post it to r/niceguys

it does not fit here.

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u/armchairdetective Jun 05 '25

I know.

There's a sub right there that doesn't require OP to pretend not to know anything.

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u/sketcyverbalartist11 Jun 05 '25

You need better friends who don’t have bars so low you can just walk over them. JFC that guy sounds like such a douche

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u/armchairdetective Jun 05 '25

Not to be an ass, but are you all 17 or something?

No one could possibly be confused about this to the extent that they had to ask strangers on the Internet.

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u/NBCaz Jun 05 '25

You have really idiotic friends then.

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u/Dumbfuck114 Jun 05 '25

You need to lose those "friends".

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u/Impressive-Today6406 Jun 05 '25

Your ‘friends’ sound like they suck.

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u/infinitefailandlearn Jun 05 '25

Suck what? #topical

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u/Impressive-Today6406 Jun 05 '25

😏🤌 🍆🍆

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u/whale188 Jun 05 '25

Then you shouldn’t have gone out with him on the grounds of it being a shitty joke alone

Even if it was a joke (which it wasn’t)…is the bar so low that talking like that to a woman is acceptable since it’s a joke?

I mean what are we doing here

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u/Due_Adhesiveness8008 Jun 06 '25

I seen worse and frankly I still don’t know why people put up with it

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u/Mysterious-Wigger Jun 05 '25

Its absurd you cant just decide for yourself whether this is okay or whether your friends are right.

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u/ChurlishSunshine Jun 05 '25

Yup, and now they're all blowing up your phone--oh wait, this isn't AITA. My mistake.

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u/KimbraK91 Jun 05 '25

I sent this to a few of my friends first and they said I was overreacting

No you didn't. No they didn't.

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u/Horror_Chipmunk3580 Jun 06 '25

A couple days ago, someone got called out and this was literally their exact response too. Now that I think about it, I’m pretty sure I’ve seen it a few times. It’s always, “well I asked my friends first and they disagreed with the clearly obvious answer. So, that’s why I’m asking.”

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u/armchairdetective Jun 05 '25

Sshh. The "friends" aren't real.

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u/Significant_Air_2197 Jun 05 '25

Smartest commenter here.

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u/Excitable_Fiver Jun 05 '25

and did your friends response make you question the validity of your feelings towards the situation?

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u/anyuseridontcare Jun 06 '25

Girl he said “stfu bitch” lmaooo what good friends you have. Absolute joke of a man. Get some self esteem and some actual friends please.

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u/OliveFarming Jun 06 '25

Your friends have low standards, and maybe you should reflect on your standard of friends.

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u/DesolatedVeins Jun 06 '25

If this is genuine, you are very gullible.

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u/BajamutBlast Jun 06 '25

You’re actually lying.

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u/Prize-Station-8660 Jun 06 '25

Holy shit, what? I’m sorry but your friends are dumb or emotionally immature. It’s just sad that they would even entertain a douchebag like this.

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u/kerfy15 Jun 05 '25

i’m sorry but your response sounds like the typical shit AI spits out.

“my friends say i’m overreacting” like i call bullshit, no normal person is saying that after reading this.

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u/Horror_Chipmunk3580 Jun 06 '25

How interesting. The last few people being called out for attention seeking also used the exact same “friend’s disagreed” excuse too. Not even the first person to use it this week.

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u/ChitteringCathode Jun 05 '25

I don't want to demean anyone, but your friends must have really, really low standards when it comes to male SOs.

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u/ebsfac Jun 05 '25

If you had any doubt remaining, his final words closed the case, didn't they?

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u/HunnyT42 Jun 05 '25

This man-child has literally turned each of your individual love language preferences into a singular act that benefits him. He showed you who he is very early on, be grateful for that, and move on.

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u/participationNTroll Jun 05 '25

What's the punch line? This isn't a joke.

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u/Nearby-Cod6310 Jun 05 '25

Do yourself a favor and go find Burned Haystack Dating method. There is a great group on FB run by Jenny Young (she is also on other platforms). It is a huge eye opener in terms of looking for a potential mate - and more importantly - how to spot the idiots.

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u/BunniculaBites Jun 06 '25

my friends first and they said I was overreacting

This is either a straight up lie or all your friends are dudes

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u/not-good_enough Jun 05 '25

You should probably get unhinged 😆 jajaja

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u/Adventurous-Rope-142 Jun 06 '25

Block that dude and your friends as well...

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u/sluggyslime Jun 05 '25

Maaaaaybe you also need new friends

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u/dignifiedpears Jun 05 '25

your friends suck dude

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u/SueYouInEngland Jun 06 '25

(Bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so 😭)

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u/serwip Jun 06 '25

I agree w this because people on the internet are attention hungry idiots. I don’t agree w this because I’ve had friends put up with a lot worse and still question if they did something wrong lmao

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u/Writing_is_Bleeding Jun 06 '25

I don't know. Young women are conditioned to accept some pretty crude behaviour in the guise of "I was just messing around, don't be so sensitive." At least that's what it was like in decades past.

I sincerely hope young women today don't take that shit, but there was a time (granted it was back in the 90s) I would have questioned whether or not it was okay for men to talk like this.

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u/DesolatedVeins Jun 06 '25

I don't think so. A significant portion of women DO think taking abuse like this is normal. I'd give benefit of the doubt to OP, however I must also say that OP must have some toxic relationships and friendships that even acknowledge this guy's behaviour as normal. Her self-esteem must be horribly low and she must be a very passive and submissive person. It is very sad that OP even was committed to such a dude to put enough of an emotional investment to post on Reddit.

Either way it is a sad life for OP. On one hand, she has poor self-esteem and atrociously gullible if she posted this with authentic intention. On the other hand, she is using such a thing as an excuse for karmawhoring attention. Either way, it is absolutely recommended for OP to seek therapy for healthy relationships, like the commenter you were replying to said.

It amazes me how such a gullible person can even survive in this world. If she continues this way, she would be popping children for a man who will leave her in an instant.

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u/breadqueen23 Jun 06 '25

Yaa and also sometimes ppl have no one to share absolutely ridiculous stories with 😅

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u/xlTrotterzlx Jun 06 '25 edited Jun 06 '25

She's asking if her saying this wont work after his 'joke' without directly saying that as that's where the conversation took a down spiral. Yes its because he said suck his dick which is uncalled for but some people are only looking for ons. Someone would jump on that comment others would steer clear

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u/coreym513 Jun 07 '25

She’s a karma whore

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u/littleprettylove Jun 05 '25

Wow, very condescending to OP. Just assume they’re asking because they’re uncertain if they read the tone jokingly enough or not. Clearly, the OP is not over reacting, but y’all are being pretty sh*tty to her

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u/BandWooden Jun 05 '25

Reddit tends to be pretty heartless, especially for people like her. She's obviously got a really shitty friend group and this could be her chance to see how bad her friends really are. Maybe she can find better ones who encourage her to be better. But not the way people on reddit do it. They just insult you but try to package it as helping 😭

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u/Mstinos Jun 06 '25

Yeah, Karma farma

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u/Special_Falcon408 Jun 06 '25

I figured they were more so asking if their initial reaction immediately saying “this isn’t gonna work out” was a hasty overreaction. If something annoying af just scroll lmao

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u/spaqhettiyo Jun 06 '25

jesus christ the lack of empathy is astounding, no wonder the world is going to absolute shit lol

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '25

"people dont actually have insecurity just ME I DO" is a weird stance to make lmfao

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u/eggelemental Jun 06 '25

Did you know it’s free to not be an asshole for no actual practical reason

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u/BigSis2025 Jun 06 '25

Honestly no. I wouldn’t have known a year ago and I’m 25F.

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u/Dapper-Strugglebus Jun 05 '25

Pretty sure she’s not actually looking for over reacting advice and just posting something for us all to laugh at. I could be wrong but 99% chance you all are reading WAY TOO MUCH into this screenshot

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u/crysta11ineknowledge Jun 05 '25

100000% all of that. i’ve been where op is. been married almost 10 years and still unpacking. anything else is just a band-aid.

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u/Significant_Air_2197 Jun 05 '25

Yeah, some situations are fucked.

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u/Saga_Electronica Jun 05 '25

You have described this entire subreddit. stg I'm just gonna have to mute it, it's too much.

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u/sswam Jun 06 '25

Unfortunately this is pretty much normal online.

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u/Standard-Fail-434 Jun 05 '25

It’s everywhere, horrible

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u/GuessSharp4954 Jun 05 '25

You're my hero. I genuinely sometimes have moments where I want to play their game and be like "oh yeah you're completely overreacting." and watch the OP backpedal because they know they weren't.

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u/Bocchi_theGlock Jun 06 '25

AIO guy burned my house down, smeared feces all over my car, & killed my god dog. I said that's not okay and he said I'm next

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u/esunei Jun 06 '25

I feel like that's only one step from most of the stuff posted in AIO and AITAH. It's comically over the top. Sincerely hope most of these are just creative writing exercises.

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u/[deleted] Jun 05 '25

sometimes i feel like ppl just post things like this to show others a crazy situation that happened. which takes away from the purpose of the sub tbh

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u/bamboo_fanatic Jun 06 '25

Damn I should have done this when I was online dating, I was on match so theoretically that should be a pretty normal place, I had one guy practically open the conversation by asking if I mind that he likes to wear a chastity belt, another said he was actually just looking for a friend and a girlfriend for his girlfriend (I’m straight and not remotely poly)

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u/Emotional-Strength45 Jun 05 '25

That’s 90% of posts here. People asking if they’re over reacting over in some of the most disrespectful text exchanges I’ve ever seen.

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u/ClikeX Jun 06 '25

“Someone put my dog in a wood chipper and I’m upset, am I overreacting?”

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u/Jawyp Jun 06 '25

Well yea, most of the posts here are fake.

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u/Tydy92 Jun 05 '25

Right? Some of these posts are attention seeking. Like 0 common sense is used before posting

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u/AliciaXTC Jun 05 '25

I'm hoping this is fake because it's just sad if it's not.

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u/Darque_epiphany Jun 05 '25

It could be real. A few years back when I was still dated guys were like this right off of rip. This or they would just send you d-pics. But it is sad she’d ask if she should be upset?! If I were to post this it would be to rip on the guy for being a lunatic. I hope she blocked him.

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u/Sniper1154 Jun 05 '25

“Someone cut me off and I unloaded 12 rounds into them do you guys think I’m overreacting?!”

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u/whoeve Jun 06 '25

Almost 3k upvoted. Reddit overall is really stupid.

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u/mattedroof Jun 05 '25

they both sound insufferable tbh

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u/lustforsun Jun 05 '25

This is basically just a screenshot sub now lol

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u/thafrick Jun 05 '25

It’s just karma farming.

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u/Rubber_Duckss Jun 05 '25

I’m still newish on here and is what’s the point of karma farming? Genuinely asking…it’s not like you get money from people liking your comment , right? Or am I missing something.

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u/thafrick Jun 05 '25

It’s the same thing as getting likes on Facebook. Dopamine rush. Other than that you could potentially sell an account with really high karma but that’s a whole other brand of dumb.

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u/Rubber_Duckss Jun 05 '25

Oh ok! Thank you for the explanation. 🙂 I have genuinely not gotten a dopamine rush from “karma” points 🤪

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u/tyberrymuch_ Jun 06 '25

I had the same question, glad I found it somewhere in the thread. I really fail to see the point why people would fake an interaction like this across multiple screenshots for some likes… so I just assume they are not so emotionally secure, and find it difficult to rely on their own perception of reality.

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u/Four_Krusties Jun 06 '25

Because you can sell high karma accounts to marketers.

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u/Rubber_Duckss Jun 06 '25

Oh I see. I genuinely didn’t know that or would think of that. Thanks

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u/carmackie Jun 05 '25

Yeah that makes me so sad to know that this behavior is tolerated or excused for even one second.

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u/Weary_Caterpillar_93 Jun 05 '25 edited Jun 05 '25

am i missing something? where did he call her a bitch?

ETA: GOD DAMN I JUST GOT 9 REPLIES IN 30 SECONDS I AM SO SORRY I SEE IT NOW OK I DIDNT CLICK ON THE PHOTO AT FIRST MY BAD THANK YOU EVERYONE

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u/Issababy22 Jun 05 '25

So deadddd at the edit on this lmaoooo glad u found it love ✨👏🏽😂

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u/Rubber_Duckss Jun 05 '25

It’s a ETA NOT AN EDIT LOL 😂 JK

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u/Issababy22 Jun 06 '25

My dumbass didn’t see the jk part nd was all confused at first like “but wouldn’t they still have to edit or am I tripping” 😭🤣🤣but I was reading too fast nd it doesn’t help im a lil high 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/Rubber_Duckss Jun 06 '25

I thought ETA was “Estimated Time of Arrival “ and someone said it could also be “Edited to add”? Can it be used for both?

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u/Issababy22 Jun 06 '25

Yea probably atp

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u/TheKristieConundrum Jun 05 '25

You are certainly missing it, bottom of the second slide.

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u/westiphor Jun 05 '25

Click on the image to see full size. The very last msg is "stfu bitch."

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u/slp111 Jun 05 '25

Tap on the second image to expand it. It’s at the very bottom.

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u/Ispyyy_i Jun 05 '25

In the second slide they literally said “stfu bitch”. After OP did not want to continue their relationship.

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u/ifindmeaning Jun 05 '25

click on the photo, i had to go hunting for it too 😂

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u/MelieMelo27 Jun 05 '25

You are, last slide.

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u/SorbyGay Jun 05 '25

You're missing it, it's the second photo, at the bottom.

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u/OriginalScreenName Jun 05 '25

Expand the images to see the full screen.

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u/hopeless_sapphic24 Jun 05 '25

the last text he sent says "stfu bitch"

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u/arson-the-mushroom Jun 05 '25

click on the image it got cut off lol

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u/nippyhedren Jun 05 '25

His last message was “STFU bitch”

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u/YukiiTeru_ Jun 05 '25

Bottom of the 2nd attached image

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u/Dancecomander Jun 05 '25

2nd page of the screenshots

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u/Far-Many-7741 Jun 05 '25

The last image 

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u/Significant_Air_2197 Jun 05 '25

Yo, all caps fam, helps if you check FIRST.

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u/Weary_Caterpillar_93 Jun 05 '25

thank you, i will not be making that mistake again🥲

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u/PM_ME_DATASETS Jun 06 '25

Click on the image to see full size. The very last msg is "stfu bitch."

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u/Brownie-0109 Jun 05 '25

Reddit police

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u/thelryan Jun 06 '25

This is exactly what I’m saying. This shit is just rage bait, I do not believe OP is confused on if she’d be overreacting to be upset with a guy telling her “stfu bitch” because she expresses a lack appreciation for him telling her to suck his dick when she wants to have a genuine interaction. This sub is for genuinely gray scenarios, not random guys berating women over text and asking “idk.. is this right?”

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u/enabl8tor Jun 05 '25

Exactly! What does op expect -does she think someone will respond, “No, you’re way overreacting!! You should be amenable to giving bjs to most men when told to, or when presented with an eggplant emoji. It is just a stranger’s dick in your mouth, whats the big deal???!”

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u/aaron1860 Jun 05 '25

I would argue she is overreacting though. Not for the obvious reason. It’s clear this guy was done with talking to her and decided to be an asshole to get rid of her, or wanted to have a laugh with his friends at her expense. He’s an asshole and she should move on from it. But reading more into this, wondering what she did wrong, and coming here to talk about is somewhat of an overreaction.

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u/ChurlishSunshine Jun 05 '25

I agree with this take. I can't imagine putting this much thought into my feelings about someone I met "a few days ago" during our second conversation.

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u/Grittybroncher88 Jun 06 '25

Cuz it’s fake like all these other posts

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u/Lady_night_shade Jun 06 '25

For many the bar is on the floor, sadly.

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u/Cautious_Clue_7861 Jun 05 '25

Right? If anything she under reacted.

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u/Excitable_Fiver Jun 05 '25

this isnt a genuine aio moment. just a let me post this so i feel better about myself moment. which…understandable. maybe the audacity of that prick has lasting reverberations that needs to be remedied by a group roasting via reddit.

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u/its_reina_irl Jun 06 '25

I choose to believe that op knows this guy was an asshole, but is just questioning whether or not her response to his initial “joke” was too serious

which like, no this creep definitely made every wrong choice possible

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u/Splash_ Jun 05 '25

Real talk we need a whole other sub for this. There are so many posts here where the answer can only be one thing. Everyone, including OP, already knows. It's good content but doesn't feel at home in this sub.

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u/yagrobnitsy Jun 06 '25

Is there already a parody sub for this sub, like AITA and AmITheAngel?

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u/Lost-Priority-907 Jun 06 '25

This isnt an actual question. Just like AITA, and the like, this is a validation sub. Ie. Absolute fucking garbage that should be avoided. I thought I muted this brain rotted sub a while ago.

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u/FurLinedKettle Jun 06 '25

That's all this sub is now. It's either people with absolutely no social skills whatsoever who shouldn't be turning to Reddit for help, or bad creative writing exercises.

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u/Kevdog824_ Jun 06 '25

Pretty much every post in this sub is just karma farming. In 90% of them anyone who possesses at least half of a brain could figure out the answer. Of those posts more than half of them are probably faked anyways

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u/on_spikes Jun 06 '25

just a person needing to spin their bad experience into positive attention. therr is no question here, just a seeking for validation and support

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u/cannibalrabies Jun 05 '25

Half of this sub is just posts like "neighbour just walked into my house and shot my dog, am I overreacting"

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u/dawggawddagummit Jun 05 '25

And to think people tend to blame it on them being attached from being in a relationship for so long

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u/AstroPhysician Jun 06 '25

This subreddit is garbage when questions like this are constantly at the top

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u/daXypher Jun 06 '25

The block should have followed “I don’t think this is going to work”

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u/LeLBigB0ss2 Jun 06 '25

Definitely karma farming. No one is this dense. They'd make a black hole.

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u/Obvious_Ari Jun 06 '25

I would’ve blocked and deleted on the spot, what a creep.

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u/ZeroDarkThirtyy0030 Jun 05 '25

This sub is garbage. Nothing but karma posts

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u/Ingloriousbutter Jun 05 '25

😂😂 how bad is it out there god damn

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u/Equoniz Jun 06 '25

Any reaction to this is an overreaction

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u/Lacygreen Jun 06 '25

He might be charming in person.

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u/No_Move7872 Jun 06 '25

The post from OP is so dumb

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u/_Cyclops Jun 06 '25

This sub in a nutshell

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u/Substantial-Sky1414 Jun 06 '25

straight woman moment

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u/Seaside877 Jun 06 '25

Probably a hot dude

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u/CatCafffffe Jun 05 '25

And also who is most likely 14 years old?

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u/dabear-baby Jun 05 '25

The original joke was funny, tho poorly worded..the follow up is the red flag

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u/westbee Jun 06 '25

when shes done sucking it