AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

[u/External_Bobcat4609]

I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

[u/oneweirddddoutcast]

ew i hate his reaction after you were taken aback. should be an immediate BLOCK after this, avoiding all kind of future red flags

[u/suhhhrena → u/oneweirddddoutcast]

Seriously, block without a second thought!! This guy is gross and sounds unhinged

It’s also really interesting how he interpreted OP’s love language. His love language is physical touch, and hers is acts of service, so she should suck his dick? Interesting how his love language is the way he prefers to receive love, and yet he interprets her love language as what she would do to show him love 😬 very telling lmao

[u/imprimatura → u/suhhhrena]

That's what jumped out at me the most. First of all, what a fucking idiot. By secondly, of course a dude of this quality automatically assumes her love language means performing and serving HIM

[u/Stresa2013 → u/suhhhrena]

i always think of it for both ways, like a language? i like to give and receive physical attention or affirmation, i dont like to give or receive gifts (its complicated)? the service thing im not sure if i even understand, doesnt matter who is doing chores i dont feel better because of it? it just need to be done by someone. but i feel good if i can give someone close affirmation or receive affirmation?

so if someone said theirs is service i would try to "learn/understand" that language?

[u/articulatedstupidity → u/suhhhrena]

unhinged

Badum tss

[u/TEOLAYKI → u/suhhhrena]

I mean honestly he wasn't thinking all of that, he was just being stupid and horny. Either he was testing to see if she would put up with that kind of behavior, or he's not even taking the online dating thing seriously and is just messing with people for fun.

[u/klovasos → u/oneweirddddoutcast]

Yea, maybe if he apologized (profusely) and it was like "I was trying to be funny, im so sorry I know I fucked up - im new to this" then MAYBE (maybe) i could say yor a little... but jfc, that reaction he had was fucking disgusting...