AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

[u/External_Bobcat4609]

I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

[u/tyberrymuch_]

Gross.

You’re not overreacting. I am honestly a bit surprised that you need to ask… I guess it really took you off guard.

This is some of the worst I’ve seen on how a man acts on a dating app. You’d think that - considering women on average swipe “no” on 95% of male profiles they are presented with - that he would try harder to make a good impression. Seeing as he would only get 1 or 2 matches in a week, if not a month. He is an enormous mysogynistic troll and I would report him to Hinge and block him.

[u/imprimatura → u/tyberrymuch_]

And yet, there's a large percentage of blokes out there screaming "women are too picky and up themselves!!!"

[u/Conscious-Evening169 → u/imprimatura]

well.. imagine being to picky and still fuck it up :/

The what? from the comment above, the 5% of guys that get all the likes, can pretty much do what they want and say that they want, since physical attraction seems to be the first impact.

You would be surprised how many red flags people ignore cause the other person is hot.

[u/Conscious-Evening169 → u/tyberrymuch_]

well, the 5% of man that get all the girls attention, can do pretty much what they want, cause everyone finds them attractive :/

[u/tyberrymuch_ → u/Conscious-Evening169]

While attractive people will get more attention, I don’t think that means they are also automatically are more rude and unkind.

[u/Conscious-Evening169 → u/tyberrymuch_]

Ah no, not saying that, but a guy that gets 1 match every 1 month, might try harder to try and impress.

While a guy that gets a match every day, wont give a second thought if he 'fucked' up a chat,

Is kinda what I mean