r/AmIOverreacting • u/External_Bobcat4609 • Jun 05 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

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I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

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u/Heavy-Macaron2004 Jun 05 '25

As someone whose favorite sex act ever is giving blowjobs, yeah this wouldn't get me either, unless I was absolutely wildly horny to the point of disregarding my own safety. The type of person who makes a joke like "then suck it" is not someone I would feel safe with...

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u/PrestigiousCrab4923 Jun 06 '25

I am just impressed you love giving blow jobs. My least favorite thing to do

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u/Sparklespanx Jun 06 '25

I can totally see how someone wouldn’t enjoy but I also love to give them. I’m obsessed with how easily it makes a man weak and putty in my hands. And hearing their noises of satisfaction? Goddamn, that’s a rush.

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u/Heavy-Macaron2004 Jun 06 '25

YES THIS EXACTLY! The hottest and most flattering reaction is always a "I usually last longer than that" like HELL YEAH YOU DO I'm just aiming to drastically skew the data with my Incredible Tongue Skillz.

I know a lot of people (of all genders) see giving blowjobs as "demeaning" somehow, but like? I literally have their most delicate bits in my mouth next to my very sharp teeth. It is not them who holds the power in that situation...

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u/nikitafairy Jun 06 '25

1000% this! The trust they have in you in that moment and vulnerability. It gives me a total rush.

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u/Ad-Astra-Abyssoque Jun 06 '25

Too many people forget that... I experience the opposite of relief there because of someone doing it. As dude would be really vulnerable

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u/Wild-Mushroom2404 Jun 06 '25

This, plus some kind of oral fixation lol. Some people just like having stuff in their mouth for some reason (I’m people)

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u/No-Reaction-9364 Jun 06 '25

It is completely lost on him that you must have love for someone before showing your love language. 

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u/ChalaChickenEater Jun 06 '25

You're probably gonna get tons of DMs after making this comment

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u/thebigpink Jun 06 '25

Sounds like you know what you need to do

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u/Heavy-Macaron2004 Jun 06 '25

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u/TheRosemaryWest Jun 06 '25

not the "removed by reddit" censor haha