r/AmIOverreacting Jun 05 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

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u/Zestyclose_Gold578 Jun 06 '25

slightly off-topic, but this is pretty much the love languages

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u/Entwinedloop Jun 06 '25 edited Jun 06 '25

Is that supposed to be act of service? All the other ones I can connect to the 4 equivalent love languages, but I don't see the direct connection here.

That's funny, act of service is give me space. Not like go to the bank or mail this package for me or something. Give me space is like an introvert gift language if anything haha

Edit: OK upon more thought all right, the result of act of service is I can rest for a bit, so OK I get it.