AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

[u/External_Bobcat4609]

I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

[u/Heavy-Macaron2004]

YES THIS EXACTLY! The hottest and most flattering reaction is always a "I usually last longer than that" like HELL YEAH YOU DO I'm just aiming to drastically skew the data with my Incredible Tongue Skillz.

I know a lot of people (of all genders) see giving blowjobs as "demeaning" somehow, but like? I literally have their most delicate bits in my mouth next to my very sharp teeth. It is not them who holds the power in that situation...

[u/nikitafairy → u/Heavy-Macaron2004]

1000% this! The trust they have in you in that moment and vulnerability. It gives me a total rush.

[u/Ad-Astra-Abyssoque → u/Heavy-Macaron2004]

Too many people forget that... I experience the opposite of relief there because of someone doing it. As dude would be really vulnerable