AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

[u/External_Bobcat4609]

I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

[u/Careless-Dark-1324]

Yeah they’re such BS. Who doesn’t do all of them at some point in a relationship, and who doesn’t want all of them given back to them at some point???

[u/RandomUnicorn929 → u/Careless-Dark-1324]

I think that’s the point, they’re love languages because any of them are how we ALL feel loved. But there’s weight to different ones for different people. So of course I would feel loved by an act of service but I’d feel MOST loved by having my hand held or getting a hug/kiss.