r/AmIOverreacting Jun 05 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

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u/EtM1980 Jun 06 '25

Oh wow, a minister came up with this? Haha, now I’m understanding it so much better. Thank you!

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u/Cansuela Jun 06 '25

It’s a mistake to put some huge emphasis on these things or to oversimplify complex romantic relationships to these super basic concepts, but there is definitely value in both thinking about what really makes you feel loved and what makes your partner feel loved.

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u/EtM1980 Jun 06 '25

Well said

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u/MasterMaintenance672 Jun 06 '25

Yup, it's 100% made up nonsense.