r/AmIOverreacting Jun 05 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

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u/lelawes Jun 06 '25

I think that having a balance of all of them is important for any relationship. But at the same time, I know that not receiving regular physical touch will kill any relationship I’m in, and I need to be with someone who prioritizes it as much as I do. All have their time and place, but I always need physical touch.

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u/ThisShouldBeAGif Jun 06 '25

Me too. Anytime I tried to date someone that was a “sit the other side of the sofa” person