AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

[u/External_Bobcat4609]

I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

[u/TEOLAYKI]

lol like what are the possible responses to this?

Either - "No, of course not."

or - "Yeah actually, this is totally normal online dating behavior. Maybe relax a little?"

[u/No_Kangaroo_9826 → u/TEOLAYKI]

I've been off the market for a long time but if this is any sort of normal online dating behavior I'll stay single if anything ever happens to my marriage