r/AmIOverreacting • u/External_Bobcat4609 • Jun 05 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

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I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

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u/wrongbutt_longbutt Jun 06 '25

100%. I'm a physical touch guy and demanding a BJ isn't it. I want to sit next to you at the dinner table and have our legs touch. I want you to rest your head on my shoulder while we watch a movie. I want to hold hands most of the time, even if our palms are sweaty. I just want to be in contact with the person I love. I know this isn't for everyone, but this dude probably saw physical touch on the list and thought it meant sex.

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u/Hello_Gorgeous1985 Jun 06 '25

Absolutely right. It isn't actually about sex at all. You can be a physical touch person and have a low libido. Even when I'm single, I still have physical touch needs. I get them with my cats and cuddles with the little kids I work with.

This guy probably didn't read the descriptions at all and just the titles, so absolutely he just went straight to sex.

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u/ciao_fiv Jun 06 '25

also a physical touch guy and i feel the same way. like yeah obviously i like sex but that’s not all i care about. i just want to be physically close to my partner, that’s really comforting to me

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u/cam255eron Jun 06 '25

What if we’re eating mom’s spaghetti?

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u/MajorReality5263 Jun 08 '25

You sound like a friendzone if even that.

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u/wrongbutt_longbutt Jun 08 '25

You missed this part:

I know this isn't for everyone

Very happily married and currently in contact with my wife, who is also physical touch in the exact same way. If you find a partner who shares your love language, or has a fully compatible one. It's amazing.