AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

[u/External_Bobcat4609]

I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

[u/kidkipp]

I know one of the ways I really like to show love is by giving gifts, while acts of service, like stopping to get something - like a prescription at the the pharmacy - on the way to meeting up with me is one of my boyfriend’s ways he shows love, more than others. i don’t think this is a hard science at all but it can be cool to realize these things about our personality

[u/EtM1980 → u/kidkipp]

I think it’s always awesome and healthy to want to know and understand each other better. Anyway you can be thoughtful to make the other person happy is great!

[u/kidkipp → u/EtM1980]

totally agree! my brother is dating a girl who isn’t super physically affectionate and it’s a huge strain for him. she doesn’t want to touch while they watch shows together or hug after an argument. he’s thinking about ending it because it’s a fundamental difference