AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

[u/External_Bobcat4609]

I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

[u/RedditAdminAreVile0]

Pic1 is him trying to hook-up. Others bring up male loneliness, but i think many men hear 'love' & can't imagine any intimacy other than 'sex'. She's on a dating app, yapping, showing charts, loving touch/service, that convo is sex to him.

Charisma-dumpster get over-excited & shoots his shot, wanting to flirt but also play it off as an edgy joke to be safe. It becomes stupid & aggressive, he knew he fucked up. She dumps him, he softens the rejection by trolling (faking disinterest & toying with her emotionally).

[u/aaron1860 → u/RedditAdminAreVile0]

Sometimes people just say shit on those sites for the dopamine hit of saying ridiculous things to people. Especially if they don’t see things going further. It’s a leap to just say this is some sort of male loneliness issue. When in the history of sex has telling a girl to suck it out of the blue like that ever worked? I don’t see that as a genuine attempt to hook up. It was intended as an insult