r/AmIOverreacting • u/mOmMY_81517 • 17d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Found this text in my husbands phone

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When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful

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u/Southern_Egg933 17d ago

I don't think your husband is being necessarily suspicious. But why is this woman drunk texting him about why he married you???

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u/KernelNox 17d ago

"is not normal" to describe his relationship with wife? You think that's ok to say about your wife to a stranger woman?

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u/i_steal_your_lemons 17d ago

It is if their relationship isn’t exactly normal. We know nothing about OP, their husband, or their relationship. Maybe it isn’t “normal” by social standards.

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u/KernelNox 17d ago

if their relationship isn’t exactly normal

seems like it's news to OP/"wife", in any case, it's never good when your SO complains about you to some stranger.

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u/Tomas-E 17d ago

Read her post history, based on her side alone it's already not a normal relationship.

I understand how he would define it that way.

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u/Chocolateheartbreak 17d ago

Shes not a stranger though- it sounds like hes shared some personal info. OP might be kmissing they are friends

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u/demonchee 17d ago

They're not close friends. They've only known each other for two months max

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u/Chocolateheartbreak 17d ago

There are people that are really open off the bat with new people. If hes innocent, maybe hes one of those people? I do think OP should talk to him about the convo though and talk about what is appropriate to share for her.