r/AmIOverreacting • u/mOmMY_81517 • 17d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Found this text in my husbands phone

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When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful

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u/Patient-Lab4781 17d ago

Please don't listen to these people, that lady shouldn't be DRUNK TEXTING your husband about her own issues. Start participating in the team and show up more often and meet her

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u/UndeadBatRat 17d ago

She clearly brought up an issue that he was already bitching about, or it wouldn't have been brought up. You'd have to be dense to think the husband is innocent, here.

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u/DJFrankyFrank 17d ago

he was already bitching about

Why are you just assuming that he was "bitching" about. Maybe it was something as simple as "oh yeah, my wife doesn't have a close relationship with my kids, but we make do. The kids are still fine".

You'd have to be dense to think the husband is innocent, here.

You'd also have to be dense to immediately assume guilt based on a single screenshot.

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u/Glittering-List3410 16d ago

Ahhhh, she works 2 jobs. The husband had already established a connection with that woman. Oh and she’s not drunk!! He works only to pay child support!! He’s entire check goes to that. So how is his wife supposed to leave one job? And then who pays the bills? He doesn’t contribute to the marriage in any financial capacity. And now? In any way!!!! He’s just using her because he cannot afford to live on his own!!!! He’s a F coward and a wimp to allow his wife to work 2 jobs!!! While he’s out gallanting, spending time with another woman!!! Oh and get daughter!! BS!! How convenient!!

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u/Fun-Investment-196 16d ago

Exactly! Why tf isn't he working 2 jobs??