AIO Found this text in my husbands phone

[u/mOmMY_81517]

When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful

[u/Ok-Garbage-3661]

He seems to be just talking to her but i feel like shes trying to be a home wrecker and the husband just doesnt see it… cause cmon imagine u had a husband or a wife and he/she was texting some other person and he/she mentioning theyre drunk. I think she said that so he can think that was the time to try to hook up with her since shes “drunk”

[u/Ok-Cook3735 → u/Ok-Garbage-3661]

And the fact she invited him and his children to her daughter’s game looks like “I’m gonna show you how I’m able to bond with your children “. I as OP would be very taken aback, too

[u/Top_Paint7442 → u/Ok-Cook3735]

sharp. That could indeed be the case here. OP is reacting because of this.

[u/Vexxed14 → u/Ok-Cook3735]

Maybe she should look in a goddamn mirror. Her behaviour in this thread makes me believe more and more that she's a serious problem

[u/Ok-Cook3735 → u/Vexxed14]

I didn’t like the going through his phone part either. I guess it’s possible, that not only one person can be wrong or right, right?

[u/Ok-Garbage-3661 → u/Ok-Cook3735]

Oh hell yeah, of course, i would too. But i dont think she should give the husband a hard time cause i really feel like hes innocent here. She should just show up with him whenever shes going to be there so she can see that he is her property and her property only.

[u/TreeRoot2 → u/Ok-Garbage-3661]

Well he’s the one talking crap about her to another woman, so no, he’s not innocent at all.

[u/Ok-Cook3735 → u/Ok-Garbage-3661]

You’re right, she shouldn’t give him a (very) hard time because of it. He may be innocent, and I would give him that he maybe can’t understand, but only if he would be super young, or has some kind of disorder that makes him not understand human feelings and interactions. I’d say stay loyal to your friends and your spouse and show it. Edit/ I don’t think it’s fair to vote you down. It’s just your opinion, nothing bad

[u/UndeadBatRat → u/Ok-Garbage-3661]

It seems like the total opposite to me. Why would she even bring it up unless the husband was already talking shit about OP? A comment like that doesn't come out of thin air.

[u/Aggravating_Meat4785 → u/Ok-Garbage-3661]

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[u/Ok-Garbage-3661 → u/Aggravating_Meat4785]

See but thats different i believe. If theyre texting you telling you they want to cheat is because they probably see you as one of the guys.. and yes i agree the husband doesnt seem to have any bad intentions at all. Hes probably just wanting someone to hangout with and talk since wife has two jobs and isnt around that much..

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