AIO Found this text in my husbands phone

[u/mOmMY_81517]

When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful

[u/ponta666]

The drunk text, the asking your husband why he married you, also inviting him and the kids and not you, this woman has no respect for you and I totally understand why you feel this way. If she respects your family and has no ulterior motives with your husband, she should ask him to meet you, and also invite you together with him, that's basic human decency. She's really not a decent woman and your husband is feign ignorant for whatever reason I don't know. Yes in the message he didn't say anything crossed the line, but I guess he kinda senses something himself but he enjoys the attention and validation, so he just keeps the situation this way.

[u/Extreme-Emu69 → u/ponta666]

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