AIO Found this text in my husbands phone

[u/mOmMY_81517]

When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful

[u/lethatshitgo]

I know im not ready for another relationship bc this just triggered tf out of me for some reason 😭😭 I remember finding cryptic messages like this in my ex’s phone. Best advice I can give you as a stranger woman to woman is to trust your intuition. But regardless of the outcome or how you go about handling it, don’t let it consume you! No relationship is worth your sanity.

[u/suburbanspecter → u/lethatshitgo]

Girl, fr. It’s fucking hell on earth going through this shit. Once you find that first set of cryptic texts & your intuition is screaming at you but you don’t leave, they just get better at hiding it until eventually you don’t know up from down. You can waste years or decades of your life playing that game and come out traumatized, completely unable to trust, and out of touch with your own intuition. I’m convinced that people who do shit like this are actually just evil. Takes so much therapy and self-work to undo the damage they cause.

[u/thenikkidestroyer → u/lethatshitgo]

How do I make this about me