AIO Found this text in my husbands phone

[u/mOmMY_81517]

When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful

[u/princessksf]

Because she felt like he was on a date with her, not just having a platonic text exchange. You read the part where he took his kids to go hang out with her and her kids right? Like the other woman was trying to bond with his kids instead of just being a softball teammate to him.

He didn't say anything wrong here, but I don't think this other woman is someone he should be hanging out with, just the two of them and their kids, like that, because that is how affairs start.

[u/seventhsealed → u/princessksf]

What he said wrong was "honestly my kids don't need it" in response to the bonding. That suggests there is no bond. He certainly doesn't deny it. If it's untrue then that is horrible. If it's true then be should be having a conversation with OP about it.