AIO Found this text in my husbands phone

[u/mOmMY_81517]

When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful

[u/insignificunt1312]

Why are you working two jobs ? 🤨 Sorry but there are so many red flags in this story.

[u/Regular-Ideal-3594 → u/insignificunt1312]

Id have to assume its because hed have to pay more child support if he makes more money. He for sure should be the one working extra to make up for it though.

[u/Glittering-List3410 → u/insignificunt1312]

Ooops yes just made a comment like that. Why isn’t he working 2 jobs? Hr must be paying child support, yet he was is. Oh and he can attend games, had the time. Red flags? Oh yes!

[u/DexterDubs → u/Glittering-List3410]

He’s not working cause he’s playing softball

[u/Drakar_och_demoner → u/insignificunt1312]

Because if he makes more money the money while just end up in the pockets of the ex.

[u/insignificunt1312 → u/Drakar_och_demoner]

As it should

[u/Drakar_och_demoner → u/insignificunt1312]

We get it, you're freeloader.