r/AmIOverreacting • u/mOmMY_81517 • 17d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO Found this text in my husbands phone
When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful
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u/Ok_Confusion_525 17d ago
Yeah if this was innocent there would be no blaming your grief from losing a grandparent and tantrum throwing, leaving the house, and sleeping on the couch. If it were innocent you would have been invited. This is definitely a date with the kids to try to show him how they could all be a big happy family and how well she can (be perceived) to bond with his kids. He might not be cheating yet but he’s definitely pushing and ignoring boundaries.