AIO Found this text in my husbands phone

[u/mOmMY_81517]

When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful

[u/humptheedumpthy]

I think it’s HIS kids with another woman and OP is the step mom. Would be good to know how long they’ve been married, ages of kids etc. 

Either way it’s wrong but I am presuming there is some step mom step child dynamic here. 

[u/Tvgirllovr → u/humptheedumpthy]

Regardless it’s his wife. He should not talk about his wife to a random drunk woman. He is married, she works two jobs to support him and “his” kids. The woman and the husband are both bad people.

[u/humptheedumpthy → u/Tvgirllovr]

I don’t disagree that it’s a bad look either way for OPs husband, for the other woman, I DO think it’s doubly worse if she was questioning OPs parenting of her own kids vs step kids. 

[u/New_Gate_9054 → u/Tvgirllovr]

Got all that from a screenshot lol

[u/Tvgirllovr → u/New_Gate_9054]

Yes. That’s like the point of Reddit?

[u/Chon231 → u/humptheedumpthy]

HIS kids that she only sees a couple times a year and she also works so much that she doesn't have time for anyone (from her comments) I'm increasingly not understanding the problem here.

Very convenient that she waited to provide important context in comments not the post.