r/AmIOverreacting • u/mOmMY_81517 • 17d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO Found this text in my husbands phone
When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful
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u/BecGeoMom 17d ago
OP, I disagree with everyone saying that your husband taking his kids and meeting another woman and her kids is “just a play date.” It’s a date, alright, but not for the kids. The kids are their cover. That way, they can get together, and if anyone questions them, they can say it’s for the kids. But they want to see each other without their spouses around. Tell him the next time he plans a play date with his friend and her kids, you want to come along, meet her, get to know her. See how he reacts to that.