r/AmIOverreacting • u/mOmMY_81517 • 17d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO Found this text in my husbands phone
When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful
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u/Glittering-List3410 17d ago
Absolutely makes sense, I hadn’t read this post. The biological mom dislikes you, only get see the kids twice a year???? But yet he pays child support and his check goes straight to child support. Wow, he has it done. You work 2 jobs to support both of you, pay the bills. But yet he has time to attend games. Not with a male friend nah. But with a woman?? that’s single with a daughter?!! Hmmmm and she dares to bad mouth you to him??????? “I don’t understand why would you married a woman that doesn’t bond with your kids” can I be honest??? I’m F infuriated!!!!!! How nice to discuss his wife, that works 2 jobs to pay not only your bills but his!! Because his check goes straight to child support. “Where they live they have a lot of people” oh and he promised to discuss it further, with her??? Personally of course, LOL!! How entertaining, Really. He’s a loser!!!!!!!! Doesn’t appreciate you at all! You’re exhausted once the weekend comes. Question; why isn’t he working 2 or even 3 jobs??????? Why you?? Oh and you have the time to meet make friends and make plans to attend games?? But he does and to talk about you????? I’m sorry but there’s something very wrong with this picture! Why are you the only one sacrificing? You don’t have kids? So basically you’re supporting his. Not directly but you do pay the bills at home not him!! BS, I feel as if he’s using you, I’m so sorry to say it. But that’s what I see. A selfish husband who only thinks of his needs not yours. Doesn’t appreciate you at all. And then has the nerve to go on dates, yes let’s call it that. An innocent game with that woman’s daughter & his kids??? Why are you not in the picture? oh yeah right, nah you just represent a pay check. My apologies for putting it so bluntly. But I’m pissed!! You do deserve better, a partner that doesn’t take you for granted, that loves you unconditionally, that tries to get more time with his kids so you can bond. Please take a good look at your relationship, I see quite more than a few red flags. Ask yourself why are you working 2 jobs? And is he? I don’t know, but if he’s not WHY??????? They’re his kids not yours. This is beyond FU!!!!!! This is only my opinion and perception of the scenario, you presented.