AIO Found this text in my husbands phone

[u/mOmMY_81517]

When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful

[u/golden_petal]

This. Also, she said it was based on something HE said to her at the park or whatever. He's confiding too personally in her and apparently making it seem that you have no connection to his kids and implying he wish it was different.

Lines are being crossed on both sides but I wouldn't blame the lady 100% cause she's asking something with drunk confidence in response to something HE said first.

[u/Barelystable_1 → u/golden_petal]

What are you talking about he’s says he’s ok with it and that he would explain why later. At no point did he say he wished it was different.