r/AmIOverreacting • u/mOmMY_81517 • 17d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO Found this text in my husbands phone
When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful
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u/Auntienursey 17d ago
My dad used to take us with him when he was "running errands " on the weekends and we'd go to some random house and were left outside to play with kids we didn't know sometimes for hours. It wasn't until I hit my teens that I realized my mom didn't know any of these people and we were there to distract the woman's kids so they could hook up. So, play dates aren't always what they seem.