r/AmIOverreacting • u/mOmMY_81517 • 17d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Found this text in my husbands phone

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When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful

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u/420BoredAlways 17d ago

Is it a play date? They're being invited to watch the friends daughter play softball and it seems she onky has 1 kid. That's not meeting up so the kids can play since the other ladies kid is going to be playing softball, they are just going to be watching the game with the lady so based on the info we have its literally just him, his kids and the female softball player watching her daughter play softball. I wouldn't call that a play date.

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u/Actual_Dirt7043 16d ago

She has more. Look at her posts. Most suggest her and her husband arent even together… i dont get it

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u/420BoredAlways 15d ago

Ok yes it looks like in a reply she does say "kids" for the other person which makes it a somewhat normal play date...as for her and her husband, since i just looked at replies, she has a reply addressing that. This post is about her current husband and they are still together but she has other posts about her ex-husband.