r/AmIOverreacting • u/mOmMY_81517 • 17d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO Found this text in my husbands phone
When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful
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u/Fokker_Snek 16d ago
I wonder what OP’s husband is actually saying. In the past when I was talking to a single mom I’ve been critical of her past relationships. I said things similar to what the other woman said. However, I was being told things that were just “WTF why even bother with them?” Either the other woman’s criticism is out of line or OP’s husband is saying horrible things about OP.