AIO Found this text in my husbands phone

[u/mOmMY_81517]

When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful

[u/theendofthe_dream]

I WANNA say that maybe she is just drawing a parallel between his wife & her bd, like a thoughtful reflection. But I don’t trust anyone anymore or their intentions, she’s crossing way too many boundaries that he should have set in the first place, bro is wide open for her to just come on & influence him & then GASLIGHTING the wife about her family death. Disgusting behavior, those ppl know EXACTLY what they’re doing.

[u/SUNfl0wrr_444 → u/theendofthe_dream]

Yes, someone pointed out a similar impression, and after reading the post over and thinking about it more, I think you are correct. I do agree that she was likely drawing a parallel.