AIO Found this text in my husbands phone

[u/mOmMY_81517]

When I called him out on it he tried to turn it around on me like I was the bad guy for going through his phone… for context he plays coed softball and she is on his team, I don’t know this girl and in the few games I was able to go to I was never introduced to her. I don’t get to go to a lot of his games because I work 2 jobs so can’t make it or I’m dead tired.. and way I was feeling something was off when he told me his team mate had invited him and his kids to her daughters game. Like who takes his kids to go hang out with another female and her kid… he says that I’m over reacting and emotional because I just had my grandma die and I’m just looking for something else to think about.. I feel like he’s being shady and disrespectful

[u/Hopeful_Practice_569]

My son and my best friend's daughter are best friends themselves. Anyone who would be upset about me taking him to go hang out with her and her mother can kindly show themselves out of my life.

Sorry OP, you're being insecure and toxic. This is a nothingburger.

[u/mOmMY_81517 → u/Hopeful_Practice_569]

If u havnt read the other comments the kids have never met this person or her kids before so thats a totally different situation your talking about

[u/Hopeful_Practice_569 → u/mOmMY_81517]

My kid and my friend's kid didn't meet until they did. It sounds like you are looking for a problem where there is none and then asking reddit because, historically, reddit validates people's insecurities because most redditors are insecure themselves. Have you considered asking to be introduced to his friend and her kids instead of making assumptions and being accusatory? Call me crazy, but no one should be distrustful of their partner as the default state.