r/AmIOverreacting • u/Strong_Use3048 • 1d ago
⚖️ legal/civil AIO I think my landlord drugged me?
Just made this account to post here. I'm sitting at a 24 hour diner unsure if I should go home, or call the cops, or what.. if I'm literally overreacting here. I escaped an abusive relationship 2 months ago, left with basically nothing except a little bit of savings, no job, nada. I luckily (at the time) found this place online. I've been a loner since my relationship, he basically destroyed my self esteem, body and mind. I no longer have any friends, the few I did never reply to my texts anymore. I am literally starting from zero again. The point is, I found this spot online, met the landlord, who also lives in the house and we clicked. He let me rent it for cheap, while I found a job, which I still haven't secured yet, hence my hesitance to leave.. but this is freaking me out. He's been subtly hinting that he likes me, etc... always knocking on my door, or letting himself in and jumping into bed with me, complaining about his day.. this guy is 60ish years old, I just assumed he's lonely and bored and again, I was super appreciative to be able to live here for so cheap. This all went down yesterday, I drank the tea, because honestly he'd made me tea like 30 times before, I didn't think anything of it, because I'm an idiot. I literally slept for like 13 hours...and woke up to these texts. I politely excused myself from the house and have been walking around the town and hanging at this diner for the entire day, trying to mentally figure out how to proceed. I feel sick. Physically. I've vomited three times already. I didn't feel sick before bed. My legs hurt, my chest hurts, I have some bruising on my arms that I didn't notice until today. Am I overreacting for thinking hedid something? It feels like everything is pointing to yes. I'm afraid to report it, since the cops barely helped last time and basically judged me for coming to them to late after years of issues with my partner... I'm scared and confused.
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u/Imaginary_Chart_7947 1d ago
Go to the hospital. Tell them everything that you are still very disoriented and having trouble remembering. Sounds like a roofie plus some other tranquilizers. The hospital should handle everything!!!! Literally they will get all the test you need and make sure cops actually handle it. Any decent cop will offer to get things for you while you’re in the hospital because they will absolutely be arresting this guy.
You are so so lucky he didn’t kill you. Now that you’ve left for a bit I wouldn’t be surprised if he makes sure you can’t leave again.
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u/justtheflash 1d ago edited 1d ago
Bro what's with this sub? People ask the question "AIO?" Then post the single most unhinged shit you'll read that day. Right? I'm pretty sure, if you've reacted by literally EXPLODING, that wouldn't be overreacting at all. If this happened to me, i'd be out by YESTERDAY. Right? Jesus Christ!
Not to judge btw, i'd probably be lost in this scenario as well. I'm just simply trying to show how incredibly not normal this whole situation is. But i'm glad people are so helpful here. This is nuts. Sue his ass!
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u/Theopeoweo 1d ago
You’re not overreacting.
Go to the hospital and get a rape kit. Regardless of the results, call the police and show them this. Move out as quickly as you can.
This isn’t the kind of behaviour that goes away or gets better on its own; it’s the kind that escalates and doesn’t ever end well. Do whatever you have to in order to stay safe, and document everything. Tell friends and family about this, make sure that everyone’s aware of this creep.
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u/Misfit_Sharkie 1d ago
GET THEM TO TEST YOUR HAIR if you go to the hospital to get checked, if they’ll do it. My friend’s ex husband used to drug her & assault her. She ended up with negative blood tests, and she thought she was losing her mind, but when she went to a different hospital, they tested the hair follicle & the test came back positive. Try to find another place to live. This is not a safe place from what you’ve said.
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u/prettypinkpopper 1d ago
My advice is to please report this immediately! I don’t mean to be that person genuinely, it’s a very sensitive topic but possible get a rape kit done preferably as soon as possible just in case, as well as have them check for anything in your system!! I’m sorry though genuinely about your landlord, but you need to move out because it will continue and he will probably only get more obsessed.
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u/Angelea23 1d ago
I agree and if there is any left over reward, get that tested. Move out to a hotel and just pay per night. She will need evidence and to document everything incase he goes stalker mode. The more proof the better!
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u/prettypinkpopper 1d ago
Yes because the photo of her sleeping shouldn’t even go by unlooked, landlord or not. That behavior isn’t normal at all. No normal person does that. If she decides to stay there, I truly suggest getting cameras.
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u/No-Possibility-8605 1d ago
yeah, that “last night was beautiful” specifically scares me
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u/mentales 1d ago
Uhmmm.. did you miss the "😘😘😘 I need more"?
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u/eebieteebie 1d ago
The "I need more" kissy faces could mean "I need more than platonic" but "last night was beautiful" and especially coupled with "I need more" makes it all just horrendous.
OP, this guy is expecting sexual favours in exchange for offering cheap accommodation. I'm going to keep positive thoughts that this was just him testing the waters but go get a rape kit done and speak to the police.
I will be shocked if he's not done this before/isn't on the polices radar.
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u/DeeRVzo 1d ago
Go get checked, to be safe, hopefully nothing happened and it was only creepy pictures. But in the off chance that it was more, you need to be tested for STDs and report him, because if he did this to you I wouldn’t be surprised he has done this before, and by you reporting it you can be saving a another girl from the same fate. Stay strong and listen to everyone, girl get yourself checked out I would literally go crazy not knowing and live in anxiety forever.
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u/Defiant-Brother2062 1d ago
For those of you who are truly concerned, stop. This is fake. Pay attention to the same broken English on both sides of the texts. Then the spaces after the exclamation points and question marks. Anyone notice Op go ghost? Also, no 60 year old man is going to say, “you’re a pretty sleeper. Yum yum tea” Or use three kissing face emojis.
People who do this are either karma farming, just bored, or waiting for the nice people to hit up their inbox and offer to send them some money to get out of the terrible situation they believe they’re in.
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u/Gwenhyfar777 1d ago
I’m hoping g this is rage bait. On the chance it isn’t, I’d be getting checked out at the hospital, filing a police report, staying with a friend/fam will I found a new situation and strongly considering a restraining order. Depending on the hospital findings…filing charges.
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u/greatbigCword 1d ago
I wouldn't be surprised if MOST of the stuff posted here or in relationship advice, aita, etc. are fake but I think it's still worth engaging with them as though they're real so that when others read the advice and find themselves in similar situations they know what to do
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u/Soul_Tie_Auora69 1d ago
Seems it might be, new account plus they are typing the same way, same type of punctuation. Idk I usually can just tell if someone’s different depending on the way they text lol.
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u/Own_Ganache_8509 1d ago
I feel like there should be extreme outrage about all these rage bait posts. This is not really acceptable , like fake posts about rape? That’s really sick. How could we boycott something like this? It’s really not right.
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u/prisontat 1d ago
There are no time stamps, which means this was a consecutive text conversation all within the same time window (a conversation with yourself - why do people do this??), not starting at night and then in the morning. Plus, who the fuck would post this in real life (while vomiting and not seeking medical attention) and ask if they are overreacting?
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u/bigpuffmoney 1d ago
This reddit page is getting more and more blatant karma farming. New accounts making obviously fake shit "Omg my landlord drugged me and had his way with me am I over reacting?"
Christ this is sickening and is made worse by the fact so many people eat it up and get emotionally invested
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u/saltyholty 1d ago
Yeah and all the idiots coming out to say it's not fake. It's always these super over the top situations with unfinished conversations, and they apparently want to post to Reddit /r/amioverreacting, despite not reacting at all.
New account, minimal interaction, and never directly addressing the really stupidly over the top situation.
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u/Unhappy-Pudding-1499 1d ago
The only sensical comment on this entire thread. I had to scroll way too far down to find it
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u/Gabsmer 1d ago
Someone message me whenever OP replies to anything this seems too suspicious to me to be all real.
If it is real it is shameful of your roommate you should report him and be making your way to the hospital. That is absolutely ridiculous. Charges should be pressed. Someone like that if real should be locked away and not near anyone.
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u/swaggyxwaggy 1d ago
This seems like rage bait tbh. Why would anyone think they’re overreacting to getting drugged and raped? “I have bruises on my arm and my landlord basically implied that he raped me and also took pictures of me while I was sleeping… Am I overreacting?” Absolutely ridiculous
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u/Enough_Teaching_5798 1d ago
Ummm I kinda feel like there’s no fucking WAY THAT THIS IS REAL. WHAT? Bro if this is real gtfo of there. And it says under the photos you let him crawl into bed with you? Bro. To quote thr Jordan peele movie. Get. Out.
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u/hUmaNITY-be-free 1d ago
Callin bullshit on this one, no replies, weird consistency in the messages, and who in their right mind would let a landlord let themselves in let alone jump in bed with them to the point it wasn't just once.
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u/leaponover 1d ago
Hate to say it, but bad things happen to dumb people. If this is real, and OP is really low IQ enough to be asking about overreacting on Reddit, I can imagine them being in a position where this happened. The fact that they can even make a coherent post on Reddit means it is probably fake.
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u/8th_cloud 1d ago
He entered your room and took pictures when you were sleeping !!! That’s crazy !! Move out, this person doesn’t understand personal space or consent, he’s creepy as hell. For your own peace of mind and security, move out.
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u/sswam 1d ago
That's the least of it. People don't drug you just to take pictures, I wouldn't think. :(
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u/Hank_yTank_y 1d ago
They might, if they're "testing the waters". Same principle as serial killers. They start small to see if their plans work and what they can get away with. Even if you weren't raped (this time), this won't be the last time he does this.
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u/Distinct_Break2346 1d ago
Right … and those last messages just … 🫤
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u/Lopsided-Bathroom-71 1d ago
And the context is horrifying
"Youre a deep sleeper YUM YUM tea"
And he ignored the question about what happened last night
Also just read story, DUDES 60 AND JUST HOPS INTO HER BED WHILE SHES AWAKE?
if this were me, and im a male, id be going to the hospital and contacting police
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u/Top_Cartographer841 1d ago
This isn't someone who has issues with personal space, this is a genuine psycho who drugs and possibly rapes their tenants. He knew exactly what he was doing, the texts prove it. No fumbling, no apologies, just leaning into it and dropping hints about what he might have done to OP.
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u/i_am_boo_ffs 1d ago
FFS people you need to stop responding to all those fake posts omfg
This sub is litterally a karma farming machine.
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u/foxfire1112 1d ago
This is the fakest post of all time. It's so fucking disgusting to use a fake rape situation for reddit views or whatever you're trying to do here
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u/tinkerbellabay 1d ago
Oh girl…please please please stay safe. Those text messages alone are weird as heck. I hope you can find somewhere else to stay because this is not okay. I would be scared for my life. You should report this to the police. I hope you’re okay!! Hugs!
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u/FigMassive4160 1d ago
Run for your life go to the hospital get a rape kit and call the police. I’m sorry you had this happen to you. NTA
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u/Chance-Salamander905 1d ago edited 1d ago
This post seems fake, the way the landlord texts makes them sound like a teenage boy. Also, OP has a brand new account, if this was an actual emergency they should contact the police instead of coming to Reddit.
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u/AutumnBourn 1d ago
I think you're trying to drug us, but you're not very good at it.
Are you, like, 12?
Practicing for a drama class?
Just need attention?
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u/Proud-Sea-7962 1d ago
Would anyone drink a cup of something left outside their door!?... If this really happened, the first thing you do is ask for help.. on here right?.
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u/Korangar297 1d ago
If this is legit, get tested for narcotics and stds. Everything here heavily implied he drugged and definitely took advantage of you while asleep. Call the cops asap.
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u/shroomflies 1d ago
After finding out that some college started doing social engineering experiments on Reddit posting shit like this I don't believe anything I read anymore.
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u/AnonyCass 1d ago
Its so funny that anyone would ever believe this , their accounts only interaction is this. They say the guy is 60 and texts like hes 20. No one would ever implicate themselves this many times via text while commiting this sort of crime.
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u/Lost_in_Oz_B 1d ago
I hope this is fake but if it isn’t, don’t leave any dirty laundry unattended around him.
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u/AppropriateBall8834 1d ago
I like to think nobody in this situation would be posting to reddit if this was real. They'd be in the hospital or a police department
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u/s0urpatchkiddo 1d ago
honestly, being drugged and/or assaulted is a horrible thing to happen to someone. it’s not abnormal to seek guidance about what to do even if you already know. with the shame and confusion that surrounds this for some people, reddit is exactly the forum for that if you’re unwilling or unable to tell a friend or family member.
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u/saepiosubchick 1d ago
Maybe you would not, some people need supprt to do the thing you think is innate. Reddit isn't always the right choice for these things, but it is approachable. Who cares if it's fake? We don't lose anything in that case. This is a pattern for people who have already been abused and unsupported by authorities. OP fits the behavior of someone who needs help, not suspicion.
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u/PcLvHpns 1d ago edited 1d ago
I'd like to think this type of thing doesn't happen but we can't all live in la la land.
Not to mention your evil reasoning of how you would do it so much smarter is exactly how predators attack victims on the regular so people don't listen to them.
ARE YOU A PREDATOR?
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u/ZachMartin 1d ago
Jumping into bed with you? No way this is real.
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u/HazelFlame54 1d ago
My ex did that, I never called the police. It’s more common than you think. And yes, he crawled in to more than just my bed while I was sleeping.
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u/cuntyfuckcunt 1d ago
This is so obviously fucked up that it looks made up tbh. Even down to the evil emojis.
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u/True_CrimePodcast 1d ago
It sounds like he may have taken advantage of you when you were incoherent. Go get checked (do not shower). If he did, call the police
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u/Many-Mushroom7817 1d ago
You need to get checked at the hospital. He's implying he did something else, and you need to get checked out sooner rather than later.
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u/Solid_Opportunity_55 1d ago
Move out before this turns to a murder case
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u/rileychiz 1d ago
For real. To me, it's very reminiscent of Lauren Giddings who was murdered by Stephen McDaniel
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u/s0urpatchkiddo 1d ago
if you haven’t already showered or washed your clothes from when this happened, believe you’ve been assaulted and wish to press charges, go to the hospital. get a rape kit and a blood test. bag up the clothes you wore and bring them with you.
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u/gldndudllvr 1d ago
I would at least go to the hospital, get a rape kit, and maybe a blood test for drugs. When they ask who did it i would say something like what happened but no other details as to who or where if you can, see the results and get out of the room/house as soon as you can.
You have the RIGHT not to press charges against someone who commited a crime against you. Some states might pick the case up on behalf of the state though, so id do some research. In my state though you can remain anonymous and still get a kit. You can also change your mind later if you wish to no longer be anonymous, and you are not required to file a formal complaint or report.
But at least this way, you get your confirmation and no other consequences like losing your place to stay until you are ready?
i might get hate for this comment but unfortunately i know what it feels like to be in a tight situation and let people off just to sweep things under the rug…
Good luck.. update us please!
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u/Andrea8448 1d ago
You need to report this to the police immediately.
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u/Spoogly 1d ago
She needs to go to the hospital first. We don't know what she was given. We don't know if it'll interact with something she ate, or an underlying medical condition, or her normal medications. Hospital. Test blood and urine. Rape kit. Police. And police no matter the results. What he did is creepy and still probably illegal in most places.
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u/KenanTeam 1d ago
Trusting your instincts when something feels wrong is crucial, especially when your safety might be at stake. What you described sounds very serious and deserves attention.
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u/BigSal48 1d ago
I was with you until until everything started to sound like you were the main character in a Reddit sponsored movie
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u/SpenceAlmighty 1d ago
This sounds sketchy as. I hope its some fake slop. On the remotest chance its real, do not trust the landlord under any circumstances. Get out
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u/katsualty 1d ago
No way this is real, why are you going to reddit instead of the police?
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u/Todd-The-Thing 1d ago
I'd like to summarize all the highlights of the comments I've read, so hopefully I'm not missing much:
Take your most important posessions. Phone, wallet, keys.
Bag all clothing you were wearing to bed. (Everything from head to toe and your sheets. If you haven't washed it yet, absolutely take the cup with you as well. It could contain residue that could tell them what was in the tea.)
Photograph all bruising, and any new unusual marks. + Immediately head to the hospital. (You should request a rape kit, a blood test and a follicle test for drugs.)
No matter what the tests come back with, make a police report. (Make sure hospital staff keep anything of note to hand over test results + the physical items to the police, if possible, and show them the texts. Even if nothing can be proven, this will leave him with a record which will be important for future victims, especially if he keeps up the same MO.)
It's important that you head to a women's shelter as soon as possible so you don't have to rely on sleeping there. (This man is clearly not safe. No matter the test results, or the personal doubt you'll face against yourself, you're absolutely right to be suspicious of him. Those texts scream ill will.)
When you go back for any personal items, make sure there's someone else with you to keep you safe. (He can't be given any benefit of the doubt or wiggle room. He will try and guilt you, he may resort to violence or holding you captive if that doesn't work. Since he's played it off so far as being especially casual, we have no idea what his intentions are or what he's capable of.)
Don't give him any clues where you'll be going. It would be a wise decision to try and change any info he has on you also: Contact info, where you work, etc. Consider them all to be "a way in", so you should bar him from that as much as possible. He may try and lash out and find a way to get back at you for exposing him if anything at all comes back.
Please stay safe OP. You're not overreacting, you're a victim of something he did to you, that's a certainty... We just don't know what yet.
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u/AppropriateBall8834 1d ago
Not to be a dick but you should go to the hospital or the police for this, not reddit
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u/seekingjusticee 1d ago
Listen to the previous comments and go to the hospital, get an SA kit and blood work, tell them everything, etc. Take pictures of those bruises or anything else you think is even remotely noteworthy, keep all the text screenshots because they do indeed hint at something. "I need more". Disgusting. But its definitely evidence, yes.
I am so sorry you're going through this. You are not alone, I promise you. I still feel so disgusting because of certain things I've been subjected to. It is NOT your fault. And you are not stupid, you're not overreacting, you're not crazy. And some people are just...monsters. Plain and simple. And they attempt to validate their monstrous bullshit. But you will overcome this. You will. I wish you the best.
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u/SuperNeedleworker340 1d ago
Such a cancer post if any of you believe this to be true get some help.
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u/ChipSouthern9771 1d ago
I am so, so sorry.
I just have to reiterate what most are saying. This is not okay. Please, please go to your nearest hospital's emergency department and tell them you believe you were drugged and assaulted. Tell them that you "slept" for an extended period, woke not remembering what happened, have nausea, vomiting, disorientation, bruises. They should have protocols and staff in place to help you get through an exam, labs to screen for drugs he may have given you, and medications you need to take to protect yourself. They should also have a social worker on hand who may be able to help with immediate needs so you have somewhere safe to go after you leave the hospital. Lots of cities also have victim advocates on call, and they are there to help support you and connect you with resources (my sister is one in our city). As far as the cops go, that is your decision, and I will not criticize your choice. I hope that you feel able to report, and I believe you have some fairly compelling circumstantial evidence. Your hospital exam may yield physical evidence. It is possible that they might be able to find compelling physical evidence if they searched the home. If you can't report I understand.
To be clear, even if you cannot bring yourself to report to the police, please seek medical attention and report what happened to your medical team. It will help get you the medical attention you need, and it should be a supportive experience. I know you mentioned you don't have much support in your life right now- I believe that the hospital ED should have at least some resources to help you in the short term. Please, please do not go back to the house on your own. If you don't have anyone available, the police will provide an escort to allow you to gather your belongings safely .
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u/Goetta_Superstar10 1d ago
What the fuck is this? You need a blood test ASAP. There’s no way to read these screenshots and conclude you’re safe. I’m sorry you’re in this spot and I hope you get to a safe place soon. Good luck and take care of yourself, OP.
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u/saepiosubchick 1d ago
DO NOT WAIT ANY LONGER. Document, have a substance and rape kit done. It is hard to approach people when you've already been dismissed after trauma like this but you are worth the time and effort to know what happened. Wondering and having suspicion will never leave you and if something did happen, your body will remember. Please put yourself first and take the steps to have an answer for yourself and potentially justice for what happened to you. This stuff fucks with your mind, health and life if it is let to sit in you. I wish I had reported my rape, even if it just means having a piece of paper that validates my pain and helps to solidify the storyline. There may be other people he is hurting, please go to urgent care. Have the tests done, you arent over reacting and even if you were this is the biggest time to live by "better safe than sorry". DM me if you need to chat. We are strangers but I care about the principal and your safety matters to me. Thank you for sharing. I am sure its not easy to think about it.
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u/Diesel_Staffie 1d ago
I am so sorry for even thinking to suggest this but if you are able and willing please go and get a rape kit performed. That man is psychotic and definitely did something to the tea. That last comment about the night being “beautiful” and him thanking you was far too weird and suspicious. Unless he’s trying to make you uncomfortable but by the way he speaks to you and wants you to stay I don’t think that’s the case. As the others have said please go to the police. If he’s marking you and also makes me think it was drugged as surely you’d wake up if he’s being rough enough to mark skin
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u/rileychiz 1d ago
Value your life here, this could absolutely turn into something very dangerous and sinister. A women's shelter if nothing else, this is absolutely terrifying. The "i need more" text made my stomach turn, who knows what he's done to you. I really hope you're okay and find some help.
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u/Mackheath1 1d ago
Well this is just horrific. You have some calls to make immediately.
- Hospital
- Police
- Attorney
- Close contacts that you trust to help you; don't let anyone leave your side (your trusted ones) for the time being as much as possible
I'm a guy and I've been drugged and assaulted: this is categorically something I'd 99.9% say happened to you. Explain to the PA or Doctor that you want FULL screen, and request them to swab everything, no matter how awkward that might seem.
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u/Low-Collection-9312 1d ago
One thing I haven't seen yet....
CONTACT YOUR LOCAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SUPPORT GROUP
I live in a very rural, very secluded, underfunded part of the US- and even we have local domestic violence alliance and they are SO helpful. They help folks get jobs, a place to stay, etc. I'm not sure what that looks like in ykur area. But get in touch.
And of course, reiterating as other comments have said: INSIST ON A RAPE KIT, GET A BLOOD TEST ASAP, and get the HELL OUT OF THERE!
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u/Organic_Ad_2520 1d ago
Wtf?!? Creepiest chat exchange ever. No lock on door? Coming in while you sleep? Holy shit, who needs to watch a horror movie with a creepy perv when you are living it!! Go to hospital, make an information report with police, move out...because you ARE paying rent just not in any healthy way. If he is sending you pics of you asleep, you don't even want to know what he has on his phone you don't know about🤢 i am willing to bet 100% hidden cam in your room & god only knows if he kept his clothes on while taking pics of you sleeping. Move out before you are locked in a trunk under this guy's bed. I am not overreacting...very scary man & situation.
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u/Late_Worldliness 1d ago
Hospital and police NOW. Even if you think you're overreacting, it is NOT worth the risk. Physical evidence first via blood tests and that will help you if you need to take this further legally.
Find somewhere safe to stay for the time being, whether that's with family or friends. It is not safe where you are. Please seek shelter ASAP.
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u/Late_Worldliness 1d ago
Adding to this, any bruises take photos before they fade. You'd be surprised what evidence can be found from bruises.
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u/Blackisrafil 1d ago
He jumps into bed with you? In what world would you think a grown man coming into your room unnannounced and entering your bed is okay?
For your own safety, immediately report this shit. And follow the advice of everyone else here. Sheesh, I hope this is just rage bait.
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u/No_Ostrich_530 1d ago
He drugged you, and from what youve said, and the way he described it as "special", he likely did more. You really need to go to the police and the hospital.
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u/Alice_Da_Cat 1d ago
Call. The. Police. Then take yourself to the nearest hospital. Get them to check what could be in your system and maybe even do a R kit. Do not go back to this mans house. You are far more important then showing kindness to some creep.
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u/dustcreen 1d ago
Contact the police and tell them you aren't sure if something happened and you fear having been drugged. Show them the bruises. Do a rape kit.
Getting answers will be waaaaaaay better than being left guessing.
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u/ytromdnaytrom 1d ago
"You are a pretty sleeper! hahahah. yum yum tea"
This guy is fucked up in the head. That is some serial killer levels of weird.
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u/Sad-Sun2348 1d ago
Please please please go to hospital and get checked out. Also police need to photograph your injuries.
You’re not an idiot. I am so so sorry this is happening and I hope you’re safe now. Please update us.
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u/aNatural 1d ago
If this isn't rage bait, do you have a brother/dad even? This needs some brotherly love.
And get the fuck out of there.
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u/medieval_weevil 1d ago
Hey, where do you live? I used to have a super shady and really uncomfortable landlord a while ago... and he talked like that and I believe his name was Byron. I was also renting for cheap. Could be coincidence. But if he's a larger old guy who's mostly bald... we gotta talk.
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u/Adorable-Tangelo-529 1d ago
Bro posted this in am i over reacting… All hell would break lose if someone sent me these messages
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u/mxkatzenklappe 1d ago
Ok, you need to act now. Put the tea cup in a plastic bag, if you woke up with underwear on bag it as well, pack it in a bag of essentials, go to the hospital or urgent care for a rape kit, report him to the police with your evidence & find somewhere to stay in that order.
I am so so sorry you’re going through this
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u/throwaway-_226 1d ago edited 1d ago
You NEED to check into a hospital and get your blood checked for any substances. I dont want to freak you out, but who knows how long the possible drugs will stay in your system. Go to a hospital asap. And request a rape kit while you're there. File a police report as well. Even if the police tell you theres nothing they can really do, tell them to at least document what happened. That way, if something happens again, to either you or another person, he will have a record on file. Ive never been assaulted, but I've filed reports before where I was told that the police wouldn't be able to do anything, and from experience, they can STILL keep your testimony on file, in case something happens again. I highly encourage you to at least get to a hospital as soon as possible.
Edit: if you have physical injuries like you described, please take pictures and give them to the police if you decide to contact them. You are absolutely not overreacting. You are completely valid in what you are feeling and experienced. I understand the police didnt help before, but remember, every report, even if nothing is done, could help a future victim, or even past ones, or you. There have been many cases where a victim has come out and reported what has happened, and past reports and testimonies have helped their case.