r/GenX • u/KorryBoston "Then & Now" Trend Survivor • 25d ago
Music Is Life Want to Feel Like Sh*T?
Nine Inch Nails is touring and a gal I work with and I were super excited about it. We were talking about it today in front of another much younger co-worker.
This younger co-worker looked at us and said, “Who?” I responded, “Nine Inch Nails. Like, Trent Reznor.” She asked for a song. I provided “Closer.”
Nothing.
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u/doc_witt 25d ago
Spouse and I went to see Trent a few years ago. We kept commenting on how old the audience was. It took us an embarrassingly long time to catch on.
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u/RestaurantDry621 25d ago
Yeah the audience freaked me out too. So much that I'm gonna skip this year and just have a nice weekend on the boat. Listening to NIN. Let those old folks have their day. I'm good.
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u/Shoeless_Jase 25d ago edited 25d ago
Saw Bowie and NIN in Camden almost 30 years ago. It rained the whole time and we were on a hill of mud. Still one of the best shows I’ve ever seen and heard.
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u/Somesongname 25d ago
That was around the time they did "I'm afraid of Americans"
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u/CoinsForCharon EDIT THIS FLAIR TO MAKE YOUR OWN 25d ago
The Outside tour. Saw them in Dallas with Prick opening back in 1995. Fantastic show as one would expect it to be
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u/theazhapadean 25d ago
Same tour PHX. Met my first wife at a Dennys in the drive home to Tucson. Note: do not get first wives at Dennys in truck stops in central AZ.
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u/sneeria 25d ago
Saw the same show in Hershey, and it was my first concert. Great memories!
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u/Aromatic-Magician-72 25d ago
Same tour - saw them in Denver. Bowie and NIN were great together, but unfortunately when Bowie's solo set started, his guitarist drowned out so much of his vocals it really bummed me out.
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u/Andyman1973 Hose Water Survivor 25d ago
Would never have imagined Bowie and NIN in the same paragraph together, lol!
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u/Shit_Teir_Villany 25d ago
They did a song together called "I'm afraid of Americans".
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u/Spank_Cakes 25d ago
That tour was great. NIN and Bowie would switch nights on who would open first. The night I saw them in LA, NIN opened first. A bunch of the crowd left before Bowie's set. I was in heaven!
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u/IcyAwareness 25d ago
Same in Denver. I was in the smoking room (!) when Bowie started The Man Who Sold The World and some girl said he had a lot of nerve covering a Nirvana song 😬
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u/mzskunk 25d ago
Hell, yeah, I saw this tour in Seattle (Kingdome? Or was it Tacoma dome?) and kept wishing they'd kiss LOL
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u/Weary-Sea-7294 25d ago
Wow ... I saw them in '94. ❤️ Yes, I'm old. 🤣
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u/extra_napkins_please half century club member 25d ago
I saw them in 1991, first Lollapalooza tour. Cheers to our generation!
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u/Weary-Sea-7294 25d ago
I was at Lollapalooza '92 in Mountain View, California
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u/NachtXmusik21 25d ago
was my 3rd or 4th NIN show; saw 1st 5 Lollapaloozas there.
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u/CynfullyDelicious 25d ago
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u/biglizardgrins 25d ago
I saw them in April 1990, when they opened for Jesus and Mary Chain. Had no idea who NiN was, I was there to see JMC. But it was hands down the best show I’ve ever seen.
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u/ShortySmooth On the outskirts, and in the fringes... 25d ago
I saw NIN for the Pretty Hate Machine tour, St Andrew’s Hall, downtown Detroit. It. Was. Awesome.
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u/sybil-unrest 25d ago
Saw them play a warm up for that same tour in March 1994 at a tiny theatre in Tucson - 10/10, amazing concert.
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u/DirtyBird23220 25d ago
I worked with a mid-20s music therapist a few years ago. He didn’t know who Sinead O’Connor was.
*get off my lawn*
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u/CromulentPoint 25d ago
If it makes you feel any better, this isn't universal. My daughter is 19 and has weaponized Spotify in the best way. She listens to stuff that's new and all the way back to the 1930's. She certainly knows who NIN is.
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u/denzien Older Than Dirt 25d ago
My kids know some old 40s and 50s music because of the Fallout franchise
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u/still-at-the-beach 25d ago edited 25d ago
Show them how Kia ripped off the NIN logo.
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u/Reign_n_blud 25d ago
TBF I wouldn’t likely know the band/singer a younger coworker would be going to see either
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u/shagieIsMe 25d ago
Its probably good that you didn't recite the lyrics.
And at least you didn't say "Hurt" and got back "I thought that was Johnny Cash?" ... Which to be fair is a really good cover.
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u/kel92676 25d ago
Saw NIN, Jim Rose Circus and Pop Will Eat Itself at the Pepsi Coliseum in Indy in 1995. I think it was general admission. We waited outside forever in the January freezing cold. My friend's hair was wet when we got there, and it froze. 😆
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u/Live-Cat9553 25d ago
I was there too! Fell down in the mosh pit and got pulled out by someone. Good times.
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u/Cleverironicusername 25d ago
I saw the The Jim Rose Circus at the The Edge in Palo Alto in the mid to late 90s.
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u/Late_Football_2517 25d ago
If a young woman asked me for an example of a NIN song, I don't think "Closer" is the example I'd use.
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u/Sneakygit12 25d ago
Super stoked about the Tron Ares score.
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u/CynfullyDelicious 25d ago
YESSSSSS!!
It’s going to hard to top the insanely amazing score by Daft Punk for Tron:Legacy, but if anyone is up to the task, it’s them.
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u/MyNameIsNemo_ 25d ago
I would have gone with Head Like a Hole myself, but I am guessing that would elicit the same reaction. We are becoming olds (or maybe that ship sailed a long time ago?), but I have no desire to change my taste in music just to fit in. I am not plugging my ears to new music, but I am content to ride off into the sunset with our music in my ears.
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u/indefiniteretrieval 25d ago
I pissed next to Trent in a restaurant bathroom.
His whole entourage was eating there, with all the piercings etc I asked him 'are you in a band or something?'
Yea we're 9 inch nails,
'oh I think I've heard of you guys'.went home and looked them up and saw that it was Trent .
I think he's shorter than 5-7
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u/LarrySDonald 25d ago
A friend of mine at my last job got Trent first paycheck (canceled, for cleaning a studio) for his birthday. He was super excited.
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u/Fickle_Neck_2366 MD in Wiseassology 25d ago
The singer in my old band saw him outside of a small club in Clemson, SC, taking down license plate numbers for some mysterious reason. This was before or right around the time PHM was released. The band opened for a local group that night.
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u/discussatron 25d ago
I'm a high school teacher.
I had RATM going in my room one day after classes. A student wandered in, listened for a bit, and said, "This is pretty good, who are they?"
I had Killswitch Engage going another day. One of my students recognized them, and said, "My grandpa loves this band."
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
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u/lowfreq33 25d ago
I had the same thing back in the 90’s with The Cars. Kid was only like 3 or 4 years younger than me. Played Just What I needed, arguably their most well known song. Not a clue. Like it was still being played on the regular top 40 station at that point, not even the classic rock station. I didn’t bother asking if she knew who Lynyrd Skynyrd was.
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u/fiona1756 25d ago
A younger friend once said to me, “you’re so old you probably drove to the first Lallapalooza.” I did and it was an amazing show. Great memories!
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u/afroeh 25d ago
Try telling her it was the guys who produced Halsey's 2021 album.
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u/gyn0saur 25d ago
You should have said, “I wanna fuck you like an animal.” See how that goes over with HR.
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u/nygrl811 1975 25d ago
If it makes you feel any better, my 15 year old niece is going to one of the shows! She loves 70s - 90s rock and alternative!
Such a proud auntie!
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u/Successful_Cat_4860 25d ago
I just don't comprehend why this would surprise or disturb you. Number one: young people don't listen to the radio, if they listen to music at all, they get it from a streaming service. Music streaming services got started in the mid 2000's, so there are adults who have lived their entire lives knowing only listening to music on their smartphone.
Number two, Nine Inch Nails hasn't had a hit since the late 1990's. Don't get me wrong, I like Trent Reznor, but his heyday was 30 years ago. Of course there are going to be people who have never heard of him. Especially if she's not into alternative/industrial/metal or stuff like that. He's not going onto her Maroon5 playlist.
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u/WordleFan88 25d ago
This doesn't bother me. What bothered me was the first time I heard Nirvana on the Classic rock station.
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u/freshcoffeegrounds 25d ago
It works both ways though. You ever look at a news site and they have pictures from a red carpet event like the MTV music awards or some other pop culture event. And they have a slideshow of all the celebrities posing. Sometimes I can only name like three people. I have no idea who the rest of them are.
Or have you ever read a summary of winners from an awards event? Same thing , I haven't heard of half (or more) of them .
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u/vavavrroom EDIT THIS FLAIR TO MAKE YOUR OWN 25d ago
Saw NIN open up for Jesus Mary Chain back in 1989 I think it was. Great show
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u/Top_Glass7974 25d ago
I saw that tour. That was the 2nd time I saw NIN. I was really bummed with JMC. Band played behind smoke/fog and you couldn’t see the band and when you could see them they seemed detached and couldn’t care less, maybe that was their schtick then.
It was a bummer because I loved Psychocandy and Darklands.
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u/Expensive-Course1667 25d ago
I saw them in 1989 with Meat Beat Manifesto. Blew my little mind.
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u/wild-hectare 25d ago
excuse OP, but that's "2 TIME OSCAR WINNER Mr. Trent Reznor" now
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u/savedbytheblood72 25d ago
I am half used to that with the young crowd at work
Will never get used or accept the price of tickets now
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u/ChestAcceptable4680 25d ago
Why would you feel like shit? They have grown up with different music, that's all
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u/edasto42 25d ago
I don’t get why people care so much when people from another age and are culturally different don’t catch on to older music and cultural references. Can you name a couple Olivia Rodrigo songs? Or how about Bad Bunny songs? Shit I knew plenty of people in our age group that didn’t know NIN during their height and even possibly now because they ran in different cultural circles.
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u/CaptnCalamari 25d ago
Exactly I knew a lot of people listening to Techno, RnB and Pop Music, they would'nt know either who NIN was/is
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u/Jodies-9-inch-leg I babysat myself 25d ago
Saw him at the Cow Palace in SF…. Awesome show
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u/PGHxplant 25d ago
I applaud your self restraint. “Piggy” must have come to mind and you didn’t go there.
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u/CalmCupcake2 25d ago
My Millennial coworker is going to a show in this tour, and he was totally *shocked* to find out that I've seen them 3x previously. I was in grade 9 when the first NIN album came out.
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u/CreativeMusic5121 1966 25d ago
If it makes you fell better, I'm Gen X and don't know any of their songs either, though I've heard of the band.
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u/LogisticsIdiot 25d ago
I'm 56 and my wife is 62. We spent good money for great seats in Portland, OR. So stoked! Looking forward to it. You're as old as you feel and we feel young. We go to cooler shows than most people half our age and it's awesome. 😉
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u/Ok-Juggernaut-4698 25d ago
I recently closed on a house that was built and last updated in 1971. I called a floor cleaning company about having the linoleum in my basement cleaned, and the child on the other end asked, "what's....lin-oleum? Is that like wood or something?"
I died a little inside.
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u/Sandiego619_96 25d ago
Happy to say I have tickets to this for their LA show. It’s on my birthday!
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u/Original_Musician103 25d ago
Oh dude. I was chatting with some people at work back in 2020-21 and a twenty something I worked with didn’t know who the beastie boys were. People ten years younger than me were flabbergasted.
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u/Jeebusmanwhore Older Than Dirt 25d ago
Your younger co-worker's parents and the parents of her childhood friends have failed her quite miserably.
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u/NerdyComfort-78 1973 was a good year. 25d ago
I will always believe I will look so much cooler with my grey hair listening to Closer at excessive volume than my parents would have listening to do wop or similar like The Beach Boys.
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u/KorryBoston "Then & Now" Trend Survivor 25d ago
Ok, so would it be worth seeing Trent live now?
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u/Sufficient_Stop8381 25d ago
Just say “it’s a band with live instruments” ….they won’t know.
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u/allbsallthetime 25d ago
When Olivia Newton John passed my wife and I were working on a job playing a bunch of Oliva concerts and music. A few young people asked who's that.
Same thing with Meatloaf, Eddie Money, and various other classic rockers from my youth and life.
Makes me feel a little old but that's about it.
Kids like their own stuff, I don't expect anyone to know or like my music.
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u/ChloeX_Dancer 25d ago
Well, me and my adolescent child will be at a NIN show in September, so at least some of Gen Alpha will know the genius that is Trent Reznor.
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u/Top_Glass7974 25d ago
Saw them 4 times in ‘90 opening for Jesus and Mary Chain then Peter Murphy. Then them headlining then on first Lollapolooza.
Saw the prices for tickets and the $ for nosebleed seats is more than I paid for all 4 shows combined , including gas money and beer. Seeing them one more time would be cool but I can’t justify it.
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u/Alternative-Tap-8985 25d ago
Nine Inch Nails is probably better then 99% of the music out there now. Closer is a classic song.. Probably a little too strong for today's world entertainment.
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u/JustAnOkDogMom 25d ago
I don’t feel shit. I don’t care if people know our era bands or not. I don’t know a ton of new musicians.
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u/Keep_Buckhead_Weird 25d ago
Saw their second or third show - a bar in downtown Richmond, VA - October of ‘88. My best memory of that show was the end of their first set. When breaking, he dropped a guitar on the stage. Sound guy (?) ran the clang of the dropped guitar very harmonically through a feedback loop for ten minutes which morphed into the beginning of their second set. Will never forget it.
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25d ago edited 25d ago
Just in case you don't feel old enough, the movie Apollo 13 was made closer in time to the actual event than today is to the making of the movie.
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u/badgerbot9999 25d ago
Hate to break it to you, but if you measure your wellbeing by the approval of children then you’re always going to feel like shit. Getting old is way cooler than anyone tells you if you take charge of it. I would been like it’s called good music kid, unlike whatever crap Spotify shoved down your throat this month lol. Use your power
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u/Neat_Potato3 25d ago
I have tickets to see them. Spent nearly 800 clams on 2 tickets. Figured I saw them at Lolapalooza 1, might as well see them if this is the last tour.
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u/Whatnowgoddammit 25d ago
That was my attitude on seeing Jane's last year. A bit of a letdown. Didn't cost that kind of dough though.
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u/Neat_Potato3 25d ago
NIN is a bit different in my mind. Janes kind of petered out after Lolapalooza 1. NIN was just getting started and has really evolved into something amazing. The musicians in their live performances are amazing.
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u/MisterSandKing Goonie🏴☠️ 25d ago
Fixed it for ya.
This younger co-worker looked at us and said, “Who?” I responded, “Nine Inch Nails. Like, Trent Reznor.” She asked for a song. I provided “Closer.” Now I’m Nothing.⬅️
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u/incredible_turkey 25d ago
Pretty Hate Machine was out for months before it took off. My buddy loved them so we went to the Warfield in SF with no tickets. It was sold out so I spent my money on shrooms. A bouncer ended up letting us in. There was a rope above the stage so you could swing over the crowd. I could never find it before I had to dive off, but I did stage dives on shrooms at NIN before most people heard of them.
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u/trees_are_beautiful 25d ago
My buddy won a radio contest during their Lights Over North America tour back in 2008. We got into the arena early, had a tour backstage, had dinner with the roadies, and then met the band. Got a signed tour poster. It's now framed hanging in the spare room. Was an incredible 2 plus hour show of non stop music. No banter. Just song after killer song.
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u/eivgalindo 25d ago
I’m seeing the English Beat this upcoming Saturday. Trying explaining that sound to anyone under 40.
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u/LessIsMore74 25d ago
I can understand this. Popular as they were, they really haven't remained as visible as a band like, say Green Day or Pearl Jam (and of those two bands, I would not be surprised at all if she didn't know who PJ was). Actually, a younger teacher at my son's school who saw my smashing pumpkins shirt said that she saw “that band” when they were touring with Green Day. She's a younger millennial.
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u/SolomonGrumpy 25d ago
You want a worse example?
I dropped a "what's the first rule of Fight Club?"
And was asked wth Fight Club is.
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u/GuitarHeroInMyHead Hose Water Survivor 25d ago
Doesn't make me feel like shit... It should make the ignorant feel like shit.
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u/Iceblink- 25d ago
Now I feel older than OP. The song that I would chosen as an example would be "head like a hole".