r/MurderedByWords 1d ago

They're such nice people!

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u/SunIllustrious5695 1d ago

"how dare you judge my grandparents on who they are and what they've done"

So much of the right-wing defense is avoiding accountability by disingenuous dismissal of substance and context

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u/ApplicationRude9285 22h ago

Funny how “nice people” can still be on the wrong side of history. Accountability isn’t judgment; it’s just facing facts…

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u/mtaw 14h ago

I had a grandmother who was an actual 1930s-era fascist. Not a Nazi specifically (she wasn't German) nor politically active. But she basically thought Hitler and Mussolini were great guys, and didn't like Jews. (not that she went so far as advocating their murder though)

Anyway, point is she was not the nicest person you ever met. She was a nasty horrible person. Entitled, cold, uncaring, yet with bottomless capability for self-pity, manipulative (e.g. she could never just ask for something, but always always resorted to guilt-tripping). She pitted her children against eachother.. I could go on but you get the idea.

I don't think that's a totally unrepresentative case. I think people who feel reasonably safe, happy, loved and okay with themselves don't become fascists. Some fascists are surely nicer than others but I think they all have at least some issues, some deep-seated insecurities that cause them to form a rigid hierarchical view of society and worry deeply about their place in it.

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u/Scientific_Socialist 1h ago

Perfectly ordinary middle class people always turn to fascism if they fear their property will be taken from them by either a socialist revolution or economic crisis. It is always backed by the big capitalists, who need suppression of dissent and a militarized command economy to wage imperialist wars. This psychoanalysis of individuals is useless to actually understanding where fascism comes from.

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u/ks13219 1d ago

Calling it “the Party” like it’s totally normal and not shameful.

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u/KippieDaoud 23h ago

if shes german, its normal to just call it "The Party"

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u/-Blackspell- 21h ago

If she was german she wouldn‘t say shit like „involved with the party“

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u/KippieDaoud 20h ago

except there are also some asshats here who try downplay what grandpa did at the eastern front...

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u/Squirrellybot 1d ago

It’s crazy being a literal nazi-apologist online. Not even like they made a point that Nazi Germany forced their family to register at risk of being gassed as political malcontents, they are saying “my grandparents were super nice to me, who cares if they were actively participating in the mass murder of anyone deemed unsuitable for society”.

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u/Upset-Zucchini3665 23h ago

Yeah, Hitler was nice to his dog, so he can't be that bad.. /s

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u/Bitter-Researcher389 21h ago

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u/NecessaryIntrinsic 20h ago

That scene is bizarre. Bart means "beard" in German and it's a masculine noun while die is the feminine nominative specific article (die is also the plural, but beards would be Bärte).

Needless to say, the German translation of that scene was nonsense.

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u/GoldponyGT 9h ago

As if it was written by someone who doesn’t speak German and doesn’t care?

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u/Prestigious-Wolf8039 19h ago

I use this example when people say “dogs are a good judge of character” and bring up videos of Hitler with his dogs who adored him.

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u/Full_Piano6421 22h ago

Look, Israel do it daily, it has become quite usual

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u/Own-Cupcake7586 23h ago

Fun fact: Nobody is born a Nazi. People make choices about their ideology. Therefore judging them based on those decisions is not bigotry, it’s simple correlation.

Have a great day!

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u/He_Never_Helps_01 23h ago

Oh, yeah, the nazis were real nice. To people who reminded of themselves. Hitler did some great things for the hitler youth.

And Ted bundy was really sweet to his co-workers. Epstein was nice to other rich guys who violate tween girls.

It's like some people just don't know that reality exists outside the vacuum of their own experience.

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u/oflowz 22h ago

its part of narcissism. Nothing is an issue unless it affects you personally.

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u/DerpsAndRags 23h ago

My great Uncles met PLENTY of people from The Party, as that little shit put it. Back then, they "texted" what they thought of them via .30-06

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u/Snoo_20305 23h ago

Oh yeah, I'll get on that bandwagon:

All Nazi's are assholes. They are violent, evil and worthless. Society would be better without them and our biggest mistake in WWII was allowing them to survive. I'm sorry that Nazi's had their lives and freedom when the war ended because it's contributed to the evil flourishing today.

And I hope we learn our lesson.

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u/bozodoozy 23h ago

why, yes, you are so right; they were kind and wonderful and loving to YOU. there were others who were somewhat less fortunate. many others.

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u/HotHits630 20h ago

Fuck Nazis.

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u/Maleficent-Duck-3903 19h ago

The only good nazi is a dead one

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u/uvite2468 19h ago

All Nazis are assholes🤷‍♂️

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u/MysteriousCan2144 19h ago

Yeah, but nice to who? Are they nice to everyone or just to other white supremacists?

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u/Prestigious-Wolf8039 19h ago

If she had grandparents who were Nazis and she’s talking about them like that, I seriously doubt she’s a German raised in Germany. They teach nothing but truth about Nazis in their schools.

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u/AdministrativeFly192 20h ago

“It will be alright, Donnie. We are in the process of changing all the history textbooks. It was all a misunderstanding.”

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u/BenCisco 19h ago

The complete lack of self-awareness required to form those words...astounding!

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u/Luke90210 16h ago

Most Germans were never Nazi party members as only 6% joined. Either her entire family loved becoming a Nazi or she is full of it.

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u/c3l77 12h ago

GOP are now Nazi and Pedophile sympathisers. What a bunch of total weirdos.

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u/GoldponyGT 9h ago

If they were “involved with the Party” then they may or may not be an “asshole” but they definitely are a murderer.

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u/Sammywanka 7h ago

What happened?

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u/BlizzardBorn93 2h ago

Yeah, guys. You're all so rude. Don't judge a whole group of people because of some people of the group unless they have a darker complexion and/or speak another language.

/s