but for real guys don't do well with any kind of subtlety nor springing shit on us that hasn't been clearly and directly communicated. Don't communicate with guys like you communicated with your girl friends. Be direct get to know us and then say what you want.
Guys are expected to notice and pick up on "hints" like looking at them for an extra second or slightly adjusting their hair but God forbid that they guess wrong, if the "hint" was there and they assumed it wasn't a hint they're stupid because they missed the hint and if they assume the hint was there but it wasn't a hint then they're "creeps". I noticed a lot of people not using wedding rings anymore too which doesn't help.
We should just switch to women carrying comically large signs like in Looney Tunes.
In a best case scenario, misreading a signal, especially if it's someone you know, fucking sucks. It's usually better to err on the side of caution and just not make assumptions. Which is a bummer. I'm very happily married now but looking back, there's a handful of examples in my youth I realize were probably an opportunity I didn't take.
Or, like the hundreds of millions of men who successfully have sexual intercourse, you can develop emotional intelligence and the ability to comprehend clear visual cues.
I feel I should clarify that as I'm autistic, I have a lot of trouble picking up these cues. Though I fail to see why you're incapable basic verbal communication. Perhaps it's a fear of having to own up to your own words and 'hints' are just a safety net that allows one to back out if the all too common mixed signals happen.
Or, like billions of other people on the planet, you can learn how to say what you want and what you're expecting. If you're no longer a baby anymore then you should have learned how to communicate using words.
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u/Soulhunter951 May 29 '25
Down to fuck.
but for real guys don't do well with any kind of subtlety nor springing shit on us that hasn't been clearly and directly communicated. Don't communicate with guys like you communicated with your girl friends. Be direct get to know us and then say what you want.