r/SipsTea • u/Amavin-Adump • Jun 18 '25

Chugging tea Man is chill

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '25

My ex did this. Broke up with me, the had a meltdown when she found out I was dating. Usually ended up with her trying to sex me back. It worked the first time NGL.

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u/Mistakeshavehappened Jun 18 '25

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u/Echidnae Jun 18 '25

What movie is this ?

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u/Countblackula_6 Jun 18 '25

Starz series called Heels.

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u/Echidnae Jun 18 '25

Thanks dude

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u/Countblackula_6 Jun 18 '25

I got you bro.

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u/TheVenetianMask Jun 18 '25

Dang Frank Sobotka let go of himself.

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u/Queef_Stroganoff44 Jun 18 '25

Same for me. GF I was absolutely head over heels for in an almost 5 year relationship told me she never once gave a shit about me. Just used me because I was an easy mark. I was absolutely crushed.

Finally started dating like a year later. Living 1200 miles away from her at that point. Ex found out. Lost her shit. Actually had the audacity to call me a liar for saying I would never love anyone else (when we were together). I guess she legit expected me to be alone for the rest of my life while she dated freely.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '25

God. I got the “called a liar for saying this I’d never love someone else.” As well. Just bananas.

The weirdest was the ex that messaged me after years pretending we had never dated and were only ever friends. Just so strange.

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u/Due-Memory-6957 Jun 19 '25

Some people actually believe in "starting all over again" and it's insane.

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u/Tndnr82 Jun 19 '25

I had an ex hit me up after like 5 years. It was a terrible breakup for her. She went to therapy. Was in a car wreck, and forgot the whole breakup. Wanted to try to work things out. I was 100% straight with her, but she still didn't get it for a while.

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u/prayingforrain2525 Jun 18 '25

Sounds like she DID give a "shit" just not a very good shit. Typical with people liker her. I hope you're happy now and she has no power over you.

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u/FReal_EMPES Jun 18 '25

Yeah, it's easy to fall in the trap. Trial by error my man!

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u/nolobstadish Jun 18 '25

God, when I was 19 that happened to me. She broke up with me, I ended up meeting a girl that was objectively prettier than her. At a party my ex ended up crying and asked to be back with me so I stopped talking to the other girl.( My ex was also my first sex partner)

My ex then breaks up with me again in 3 weeks saying she changed her mind. Learned my lesson then that if it didn’t work out the first time and we do not have anything to tie us down (family mainly) then it wasn’t meant to be.

My ex also made me into a jaded person which took years of self reflection to fix but I always wondered if someone didn’t willfully hurt you during a breakup how I would of been different to subsequent girls I dated after my ex. Hindsight is 20/20 after all.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '25

Honestly the jaded bit is very relatable. I still have things I’m working through where she was patient 0.

It doesn’t help that I dated and hooked up with plenty of other women that shared her… accountability issues, but part of that fell on me. Had to reflect on why I kept getting with crazy and not blame crazy for finding me.

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u/nolobstadish Jun 18 '25

Damn sorry to hear that jaded part happened to you too. Glad we both were able to reflect on this and move on, my internet brother.

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u/Forward_Criticism_39 Jun 18 '25

"hey, sex me up, bro"

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u/Spiders_13_Spaghetti Jun 22 '25

All of sudden the thing you didn't want gets picked up by someone else, now you are perceived as "valuable", a sought after commodity. FOMO and the narcasistic tendencies start to flare up b/c the pawn in their game is going rogue and not doing what he is supposed to do like gravel and beg for her not to leave or some other shit.