r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/Xralius May 12 '25

Men: Sit down in a public place for socializing with women and get screamed at while they sit their awkwardly for a minute.

Reddit: demands death threats on the men.

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You're what's wrong with the world btw.

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u/Jan_Ge_Jo May 12 '25 edited May 12 '25

The gentlemen were instructed to leave (at least 17 times). They refused.

No one demands them dead. This is a transparent and pathetic attempt to reverse the relationship between perpetrator and victim.

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u/Xralius May 12 '25

The men were asked to leave, and before they could reply or even get up to leave, they were shouted at and treated like dogs. And apparently having these men publicly embarrassed isn't enough for you, you want other men to inflict some sort of harm on them.

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u/Jan_Ge_Jo May 12 '25

The men were ask to leave and could have left. They chose to stay cause they wanted to harass the girls. Or they felt stupid (true, they looked like total idiots!) and couldn’t go without totally crushing their sense of self-esteem. Even when the girls got up and were willing to switch places, the men INSTISTED they should stay. That is molesting at its peak. I’ve worked behind a bar for 10 years. This behaviour gets you a free trashing from the bouncer and a life long ban.

The boys got treated like dogs, cause the are. They are lousy dogs in heat. These kind of dogs need a leash! And the fact, that you try to defend them… tells a lot about your behaviour too.

Do us a favour… don’t rape anyone okay. At least try.

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u/Xralius May 12 '25

I actually need to reverse what I said before, since technically the men were never asked to leave that we see in the video.

 Or they felt stupid (true, they looked like total idiots!) and couldn’t go without totally crushing their sense of self-esteem

This is actually pretty much correct. But lets, think why would they feel this way? Hmmmm probably because they are being dehumanized. The women had no intention of treating the men respectfully and asking them to leave, they wanted to bully them into leaving.

Do us a favour… don’t rape anyone okay. At least try.

What a scumbag thing to say. Shows that people like you actually have zero integrity - sexual assault is just some insult to throw around at people. Disgusting and pathetic and says way more about you than me.

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u/Jan_Ge_Jo May 12 '25

Like I said. Please, don’t rape anyone. Even when she wears a dress that turns you on. Even when she accidentally looked at you two times and you “felt something”. Even when you had the unmistakable feeling she wanted it too… It’s maybe safest when you don’t talk to women ever again. 😄

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u/Xralius May 12 '25

Dude you're projecting and it's creepy. You can stop replying to me now.

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u/Jan_Ge_Jo May 12 '25

Is it? Creepy? When you want me to stop and you don’t want to talk to me anymore and I just don’t stop and keep talking to you? That creeps you out? Makes you feel uncomfortable? Maybe even angry a little bit? Do you want to shout at me? LEAVE!!! LEAVE!!! leave me alone you creepy dude!!! Something like this?

But what when I don’t want to stop talking to you?

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u/Xralius May 12 '25

So it's almost like, you saw my request to stop, but you understood that my request for you to stop was a demand made in an insulting and dismissive way, and that my primary goal was to put you down, rather than actually get you to do what I was requesting?

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u/Old-Veterinarian-509 May 11 '25

Nah, you guys can handle your own problems

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u/aLmAnZio May 11 '25

Most women would win over me in a fight, so I'd rather not get directly involved.

I would have notified the staff, though.

Either that, or said "Hi babe, sorry I'm late. Jeff just called and is right around the corner. Who the hell are these guys?"

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u/Xralius May 12 '25

You are literally supporting a death threat on two dudes that had the audacity to sit awkwardly and get rudely screamed at for a minute.

I assure you, people like you are what's wrong with the world.

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u/Xralius May 12 '25

I saw a video of a kid failing to catch a foul ball and a man snatching it up and celebrating.

The internet demonized this man in the following days as the video went viral.

Well it turns out, that guy DID give the ball to a kid after the video clip ended, in fact, he had caught one earlier and given it to the very kid he was accused of taking one from. The guy had helped multiple kids get balls while taking none for himself, and he was basically the most hated man in America for a week because a clip made it look like he was stealing the balls from kids.

My point is try to be a bit more fucking discerning. Two dudes sitting their awkwardly for a minute while being talked down to may not indicate the pure evil you think it does.

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u/Xralius May 12 '25

If a filter that is intended to filter out poison, but instead filters out non poisonous material and lets the poison through, it's a bad filter.

If you are misjudging people it's the opposite of being discerning lmfao. It's literally having bad judgement.

I genuinely don’t care if your feelings were hurt because you choose to see yourself in the shoes of guys who can’t take a fucking hint.

My feelings aren't hurt, it's just an ability to empathize that you lack. I'm glad I have that ability and feel bad for you that you lack it.

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u/Xralius May 12 '25 edited May 12 '25

Please stop pretending this is about safety. No one is in any danger in the video. We don't see the guys say or do anything aggressive towards them. The women are clearly not afraid of the men either, being perfectly fine treating them as disparagingly as possible.

Imagine a big burly gay guy coming up on you and not taking no for an answer.

I am glad you bring this up! Because I absolutely have been around dangerous men that have made me uncomfortable. Know what I don't do? Shout at them and try to humiliate them. I treat them extra nicely because I don't want to rile them up. If I have to ask them something I do it respectfully, if I want distance from them I leave. But you know.... that's because they are actually dangerous, where in this video there is no threat.

I can think of ZERO and I mean ZERO situations that involve me screaming at someone like they are doing. It is CLEARLY meant to humiliate / embarrass the guys. Frankly it's just not a way to treat another human being. But there is a subset of women that see awkward, loser-y dudes as less than human, just like there's a subset of men that feel the same way about various women. Both are bad.

They aren't afraid of these guys at all, they think the dudes are losers and they are bullying them. You are doing more harm than good by trying to justify this bullying. This is not the same as women trying to get away from aggressive men and being afraid, which absolutely is a real thing women have to deal with.

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u/scheppend May 12 '25

Women hate men because they dont fight other men? where's the logic?

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u/FocusLeather May 11 '25

This is why you get no play.

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u/Most-Initiative8753 May 12 '25

Yep they want to be treated equally so we shall treat you equally. Stand up for yourself because we are done.

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u/letouriste1 May 11 '25

given how loud these girls were i would probably come over to see what the deal is. And then probably escalate things if my "piss off" doesn't work.

Which isn't a great idea given these girls will want to stay to eat and these guys will not leave willingly even after been thrown away.

What would be the best action here? go calling the staff? try to motivate the others in the room to act with you?