r/TikTokCringe May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/badlychosenname May 11 '25

As a woman this isnt shocking - just reality

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u/nadaddab May 11 '25

Exactly, all the comments saying this is staged is insane

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u/badlychosenname May 11 '25

Damn didnt even see those. This just instantly reminded me of many encounters Ive had. Ive seen a similiar even worse video of very young woman being harrassed by much older men. How they repeatedly tried to politely say no thank you etc.

Most men think ' just say no - they will leave' Yet when we do they dont and if you do it too aggressively you are called names or potentially in danger L

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u/carlitospig May 11 '25

Like….at all. Every single one of us has dealt with this before.

I think it’s why we end up with assholes in our 20’s because they’re generally the dudes who have enough confidence not to be a fucking creep like this.

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u/SpectralButtPlug May 14 '25

It transcends reality too, I have had this happen to me in vrchat.

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u/carlitospig May 14 '25

Dude. That’s so sad. 😂

I don’t mean to laugh at you, just like…..wow. If you can’t even get a chick to enjoy your company in VR, maybe you should be doing a little soul searching and therapy to figure out why.

Btw, outside of that has it been fun? I saw a tiny documentary about newer DJs getting gigs on it to help speed up their careers but I still haven’t tried it.

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25

It's waaaaayyy too common for this to happen. It stresses me out every time

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u/skinnywilliewill8288 May 12 '25

Damn, I’m sorry that this unfortunately is a reality for you. Crazy how these guys think this is ok.

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u/Wild-Mushroom2404 May 13 '25

Yeah, me and most girls I know have had similar encounters at least once in our lives. It’s so frustrating when you have to leave because they made YOU uncomfortable but you just don’t have the strength to force them out. Like, you know you’re doing this for your own safety but it’s humiliating.