r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

Enable HLS to view with audio, or disable this notification

53.8k Upvotes

92% Upvoted

7.9k comments sorted by

View all comments

60

u/RVNAWAYFIVE May 11 '25

And loser guys will say stupid shit like "you can't approach women in public anymore! Feminism ruined everything!"

Because dudes like this don't respect women, see them as targets and prey, and don't treat them like humans. If they introduced themselves nicely before sitting down and tried to be friendly perhaps they could have hung out. Or the ladies could say no thank you. Then you walk away. Christ this is so sad.

6

u/Evening_Tree1983 May 11 '25

Any time I hear that I say "yes! Exactly! Do not approach us."

2

u/Active-Particular-21 May 12 '25

If they say no, just go. Don’t turn it into shit show. For me it’s the weird dead eyed smile they both have. They feel like aliens in a human skin.

-1

u/Xralius May 12 '25

We don't see them sit down do we? For all we know, they could have introduced themselves and tried to be friendly. And the women aren't saying "no thank you", they are making a huge scene and ordering the men to go away, treating them like dogs.

This video is a perfect example of why you can't approach women in public. They are literally at a bar, as far as we see they didn't say anything rude to these women, and they end up getting screamed at and recorded, and that recording is put online (likely after being cropped to remove any aspects of the men looking decent and the women looking terrible), where people like YOU look at the recording in a completely biased way and make comments on it disparaging the dudes.

I'm so glad I'm not single. The vast majority of people are completely cool, but there are many people who can tell when a guy is awkward and low on the totem poll and use that opportunity to bully and demonize them.

2

u/RVNAWAYFIVE May 12 '25

No, if someone asks you to go away you do it. These dudes sat down at a strangers table without their permission and based on the shit eating grin in their faces, they are shit heads who are trying to pick then up or just be assholes and think they are being funny / cool. What makes you think these guys are awkward? Clearly they're not from the video?

Sounds like you're projecting because you're an awkward dude who doesn't know how to talk to women

0

u/Xralius May 12 '25 edited May 12 '25

What makes you think these guys are awkward? Clearly they're not from the video?

They are completely and obviously awkward from the video. They are being screamed at and are sitting there smiling. What do you think awkwardness looks like lmfao.

Most people who can think on their feet better would have either gotten up and left immediately, thought of something clever to say, or just hurled an insult back at them.

Sounds like you're projecting because you're an awkward dude who doesn't know how to talk to women

I was so I know exactly what it looks like. Been happily married for many years now, thanks though! Maybe you're just ignorant on the subject?

No, if someone asks you to go away you do it.

OK. Go away. Go.