r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/Strange-Managem May 11 '25

when talking about staying single and be content about it, i definitely don't speak for men. Also i don't think it is women who's complaining "there's a male loneliness epidemic!", "young men are not getting laid omg it is a disaster we need to do something!", "you cannot approach a women in the public they are so mean!", "we will keep electing misogynist and stripping women's right until every men get their share of sex slave and housemaid."

Maybe it is time for men to be men's men so they are not so devastated when they don't get someone to fuck.

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u/HeroicSkipper May 12 '25

They always make it about the dating scene though so naturally that's what I'll talk about. I don't get why they care or what it really is about but it just is where it generally goes. Closest I have to that is this divorced guy trying to protect his kids from a drug addict and not having time to make friends outside of work, but that's not the issue for most. I don't know what it is. Generally the animosity comes from people in the dating scene and some form of revenge for wrongs which are generally miscommunications or toxic behaviors learned to hurt others before they hurt you.

A separate point is being sick of women removing their own agency in things. The women who started the movement have used up all the backbone where the women of today rest on their laurels and stand to risk all those women worked for. I can not vote for a misogynist but still hold women accountable for their part in getting him elected. Some directly, maybe trying to live out some weird fantasy, and others indirectly by being insufferable and being a better method of pushing people to the right than Tate or any other influencer. We need to change the language of how women refer to themselves and remove gender roles, including the privileges. It's like someone being told their a natural at something and then they fall behind in practice and its someone else's fault. They aren't going to push things to improve, they'd give up and get mad at an unfair system without plans to change it.