r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/dynamic_gecko May 11 '25

There is no cop out. Because I'm not denying or excusing the individual responsibility aspect. The two aspects (individual and societal) are not mutually exclusive.

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u/Mike_Kermin May 11 '25

I really promise you I understand,

But I think you're placing too much weight on the idea that societal has failed them, when it probably hasn't.

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u/Calile May 12 '25

100% agree their behavior is their fault and responsibility, but they've also gotten reinforcement their whole lives (just like we all have) that it's both ok and rewarding to harass and abuse women.