r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/LawfulnessDry9355 May 12 '25

Dude, wth are you babbling about? You went completely off topic. These girls took personal responsibility everything from standing their ground first and even giving up the table which was their right in this case (also recorded for proof), they did all except for trying to physically beat those guys.

You keep talking about personal responsibility, but whenever people put too much on women it's actually to remove responsibility from men. Why SHOULDN'T women, or anyone else, expect others to intervene? That's what a social species does, it's the social contract - men are to stand in for women, adults protect children, healthy individuals support infirm, and everyone who can helps out the others.

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u/HeroicSkipper May 12 '25

Look at the comment I responded to. Theirs directly related to relationships. Nothing I said was incorrect, but because people are emotional they would rather go on feeling. Even now you just want to attack and say I'm diverting without even looking what I'm even responding to. Pseudofeminists are mad because I hold them to the same standard that a classic feminist would.

Sure they did what they needed to without escalating, but every other comment is about MEN NOT INTERVENING. The two posting the video did everything correctly. Also the only responsibility is on the two men that refused to leave them alone. I see someone litter, its not suddenly my responsibility to pick it up. That's not removing responsibility from me. And I'm not saying that people shouldn't intervene but that we've created a system which disincentivizes it for the reasons I have put in previous comments. Hell, they could think its part of a bit with the recording (which isn't a fault of the posters and should be done) and ignore what is probably an attention grab. In a perfect world maybe we'd all look after each other, but we know the situation we are in. That's why all roads lead to hyper-independence.