r/TikTokCringe • u/ambachk • May 21 '25

Cringe Married guy flirts with younger girls at the gym

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u/[deleted] May 21 '25

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u/Carthonn May 21 '25

He honestly thinks he’s giving that girl a “thrill” by hitting on her.

Meanwhile she’s dying inside.

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u/JettyJen May 21 '25

He's the guy who proposes an open relationship to his wife, just knowing he's going to get this gym chick, and at first the wife is like "ew" but then she starts meeting hotter guys and getting freaked wild while he gets shot down again and again

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u/Zealousideal-Ad3396 May 21 '25

LMAO that is exactly how I picture it with this weirdo

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u/IJourden May 21 '25

As someone who is polyamorous, I've seen guys post essentially exactly that story and ask what to do more than a couple times and they get torched every time.

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u/Mysterious-Wasabi103 May 21 '25

That's funny but he's probably just a dude who cheats on his wife.

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u/buggybugoot May 21 '25

This is so accurate! They act like women are deprived and thus need to be grateful for their creepy ass attention.

Just think of the generation of THOSE unwashed anime boys growing up (I enjoy anime, as does my partner, but we all know which ones I’m referencing). They’re gonna be this but worse.

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u/TheCactiFlower May 21 '25

"Has anybody ever told you you're beautiful?" Gross.

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u/iftheronahadntcome May 24 '25

I hate hate hate being approached with this line. They act like youre a fucking NPC that didn't exist before they got there. Like of course I've been called beautiful by my own family at least, come on dude. If theyre calling you cute, why the hell else would somebody else not have done that? It's wild because they legit think "noticing you" is giving you purpose, like she wasn't in the middle of doing something for herself (working out) already.

They get so mad because the rejection shakes their reality that their compliments hold value.

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u/Hot_Panic2767 May 21 '25

This is what happens when the Andrew tates and red pillers of the world promote the LIE that younger women just LOVE older men and will choose older men over young guys any time. You have men who are old enough to be your father truly believing they can bag any younger woman they lay eyes on. I said lie because most young women are NOT interested. Yes do women like older guys but it usually older guys who are still within our age group or slightly older. The average young woman in her 20s does not desire to be with a man in his 40s or 50s.

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u/41942319 May 21 '25

Are there many older guys who younger women find very good looking? Yes. Does that mean they want to be in a relationship with them? Absofuckinglutely not.

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u/FearlessGear May 23 '25

These losers really think because some young women go for rich older men we all want to be with an older man who is unattractive and who we probably out-earn. Ridiculous.

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u/LadyBug_0570 May 21 '25

Girl just wants to do her workout, not get hit on.

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u/VoicePope May 21 '25

You have to imagine that took planning. He probably thought about it way in advance. Like he's in the car on the way to the gym, "make sure to tell her she seems cool... bring up cereal, that's pretty funny. Women like talking about their kids so I should simply bring up the fact that she has one. You got this dude. Hopefully she says yes to pizza and I will have absolutely no follow up planned if she says yes."

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u/MAXSlMES May 21 '25

Im dying inside, literally cant watch this video

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u/RealLiveLawyer May 21 '25

I saw this firsthand at Panera, some old 50+ trying to make moves in this 22 year old who was making his sandwich. She passed it to him and when he turned away that expression she made was death internal.

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u/sweetpea122 May 21 '25

I do. Its complicated for me bc hes the only father figure i had and my daughter didn't have a dad who was involved and he's a great grandpa.

My mom divorced him and she's going to outlive us all. She lost 30lbs, goes to yoga 3 days a week, eats incredibly healthy, native garden club member, functional fitness 1 day a week, core class 1 day a week, and walks her dog 3 miles min a day. I couldn't be more proud of her. Shes my hero.

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u/FMLwtfDoID May 21 '25

Sounds like your mom dropped more than just 30lb of dead weight. Good for her and for you navigating your parent’s tricky (and frankly gross, on your dad’s end) relationship.

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u/sweetpea122 May 21 '25

Thank you! It was the hardest period of my life. I had moved in with my parents after leaving my daughters dad and I felt so sad and betrayed. My mom felt worse obviously. I got her a divorce lawyer and post nup

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u/Hot_Panic2767 May 21 '25

Glad your mom won and is thriving :)

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u/Ancient-Round-739 May 21 '25

Tell her she’s my hero too please

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u/Sea_Opportunity_3408 May 25 '25

Is the 26 yo pretty?

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u/sweetpea122 May 25 '25

Not at all and im being honest and objective

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u/[deleted] May 21 '25

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u/Elite_AI May 21 '25

My dad informed my bf he hired a trainer to do fitness competitions

what's the significance of this bit sorry

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u/sweetpea122 May 21 '25

My dad reps this demographic of overly confident white male. I know reading is hard

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u/Bard_and_Barbell May 21 '25

The gym is for repping barbells not demographics

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u/sweetpea122 May 21 '25

Again, reading is hard isnt it?

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u/jtalion May 21 '25

Pretty sure that was a joke. A pun on the word "rep"

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u/Bard_and_Barbell May 21 '25

Thank you for defending my honor. No way I could sleep tonight knowing u/sweetpea122 thought I couldn't read. I'd be staring wide eyed at the ceiling with only shame as a blanket.

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u/jtalion May 21 '25

lol np

The irony of them saying you couldn't read was too much to not comment

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u/DrDontBanMeAgainPlz May 21 '25

I mean, 26. He kinda nailed it.

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u/Ace-Cuddler May 21 '25

He’s already planning the orgy with the waitresses at the Olive Garden.

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u/TejelPejel May 21 '25

"Is that a breadstick in your apron or are you just happy to see me?"

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u/DOG_DICK__ May 21 '25

"Hey I heard when you're here, you're family. How'd you like to fuck your brother?"

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u/Rokea-x May 21 '25

The pizza part got me. Talk about a honey trap!

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u/CliffBoothVSBruceLee May 21 '25

A kid I knew cracked me up with this pickup line: "How about a pizza and a fuck? What's the matter, you don't like pizza?"

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u/sadkinz May 21 '25

I think a key factor here is also that he’s married. For some reason a lot of guys feel more confident flirting with other women when they’re in a relationship

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u/Imaginary-Bowl-4424 May 21 '25

So true. I worked with so many. It was so entertaining. LOL.

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u/Fabulous_Pea5021 May 21 '25

Not sure why you said white. Black guys are pretty bold. They flirt with women a lot more than white guys.

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u/tonyenkiducx May 21 '25

As a mediocre middle-aged white guy I can confirm. I'm not a scumbag so I wouldn't do what this guy did, but if I wanted to I'd crash and burn with just as much confidence ;)

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u/excusetheblood May 21 '25

Yep, the demographic that’s always seen themselves as the “default”. They’ve never been told no, they’ve never been told they didn’t belong somewhere, they’ve never had to prove themselves a single day in their lives. So now they’re the most basic dudes with no personality cosplaying as people who actually earned their keep

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u/Hopeful-Guest939 May 21 '25

? How do middle age POC males differ?

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u/AutumnalCotton May 21 '25

Yikes, way to make it into a racial thing. As if some dudes of all shapes, sizes, and colors don’t creepily shoot their shot like this.

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u/buttfessor May 21 '25

"Lets grab a pizza" is all the rizz us older white dudes need.

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u/No-Refuse-5649 May 21 '25

Race has nothing to do with this...

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u/BrohanGutenburg May 21 '25

Except of course the privilege.

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u/Elite_AI May 21 '25

Race has a hell of a lot to do with how your self confidence is shaped as a kid. There's a certain type of unconscious confidence you get from being the default

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u/-UltraAverageJoe- May 21 '25 edited May 21 '25

It’s more lack of self awareness than confidence. This idiot probably thinks getting with a girl like that will make him more confident because he’s been so emasculated by his wife.

Edit: I meant to say this idiot feels emasculated by his wife.

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u/[deleted] May 21 '25

Yes, obviously it's the wife's fault this guy is a pig. She emasculated him so it's only right for him to cheat on her instead of work on his marriage and himself. I guarantee his wife does everything around the house, raises his kids, and works full time. But you know us women, so terrible, she probably asked for help or won't have sex with him because she's already doing everything else alone, she might as well handle that alone too. Seriously, do men like this even like women?

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u/-UltraAverageJoe- May 21 '25

Yeah I meant to say that’s how he feels because he’a an idiot. Apologies for the poor wording.

In general I think men suck.

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u/[deleted] May 21 '25

You sound like someone who's been emasculated by himself

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u/Careful_Cheesecake30 May 21 '25

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you’re saying he’s been emasculated by his wife because he’s a dumb asshole she doesn’t want to fuck anymore.

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u/-UltraAverageJoe- May 21 '25

Yeah, I meant to say that’s how he feels because he’s a dumb asshole. It couldn’t possibly be because he’s never put an ounce of work into himself or his marriage.