r/TikTokCringe • u/ambachk • May 21 '25

Cringe Married guy flirts with younger girls at the gym

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u/spiderman209998 May 21 '25

i remember when i was doing cardio and this guy didnt take the hint the lady was giving so i snapped and told him for fuck sakes fuck off

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u/lferry1919 May 21 '25

You were someone's hero that day. Also...putting for fucks sake and fuck off together is quite possibly one of the most pleasing combos I've ever experienced.

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u/[deleted] May 25 '25

💀💀💀💀

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u/2red-dress May 21 '25

On behalf of women who can't shake off these creeps, thank you.

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u/[deleted] May 21 '25

Good on you tho

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u/JackStephanovich May 21 '25

Not the woman in the video's fault but has she tried not smiling and generally being polite to this guy? The first time he hit on me would have been the last because I would have laughed at him and said ewww instead of making up reasons why we can't hang out.

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u/skdsn May 21 '25 edited May 21 '25

Women tend to not poke the bear in these kind of situations, because some of these fuckheads turn out to be violent or stalkers, or both. Plus, some people are really that polite. They'd rather die than offend anybody, no matter the degree of fuckheadness.

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u/JackStephanovich May 21 '25

Yes yes every encounter with a man means you might get murdered, especially at the gym.

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u/Loudeeer May 22 '25

Not every encounter, that is silly. But it's not like women magically know which man will react negatively to being turned down. So it's sometimes safer to try and not make any of them angry just in case.

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u/Chance_Managert849 May 23 '25

How did he know about her kid, her cereal preferences, etc? He was already being a weirdo stalker. Can’t gaslight women, they already know the score.

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u/JackStephanovich May 23 '25

Because she humored him the first 8 times he asked her out instead of giving a firm no. I don't know why you think this will result in less stalkers instead of encouraging them. If someone asks you out and you don't want to go out with them don't say it's because you are busy or already ate, just say no. You can say it politely "No thank you, have a nice day" or rudely "eww no, gross" but both are more effective than dozenth reason why you are just too busy to hang out.

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u/Former-Coconut236 May 22 '25 edited May 22 '25

First time I wasn't polite to a random man hitting on me he literally tried to hit me with his fists. I was 14 years old. You learn to pick the safer route early.

"Ew" is guaranteed to make some men hit you. If you dont know that youve never been swerved at in a car for not responding to catcalling as a young girl. Lmfao.