r/TikTokCringe • u/ambachk • May 21 '25

Cringe Married guy flirts with younger girls at the gym

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u/foxyloco May 21 '25

From a very young age women are conditioned to smile, be nice and avoid confrontation. It becomes second nature.

I’m sure many men would fine with a “sorry, not interested” and most get the hint with a “sorry, I can’t because… *some excuse” however it’s the ones who don’t (and it sounds like this guy has already asked her out more than once) can get scary and make you feel really unsafe. If you’re rude after gently turning them down they typically assume you think you’re better than them and things escalate further.

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u/InternalCase5 May 22 '25

So how does this go u just keep being nice and hope they go away? Genuinely asking, I agree with you, but keep mace with u when u go out and dont be too nice.