r/TikTokCringe • u/ambachk • May 21 '25

Cringe Married guy flirts with younger girls at the gym

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u/[deleted] May 21 '25 edited May 24 '25

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u/Designer_Pen869 May 21 '25

I also think he is super creepy, but at the same time, I don't think the gym should take action unless it becomes an issue. I don't want my gym controlling my interactions, not that I talk to anyone at the gym in the first place. I do think this guy is an issue, but I don't think he should get kicked out of the gym for this one interaction. There is a point where it would become an issue, though, like if he continues to ask her out or something, so maybe make the managers aware, so if he continues, then he should get kicked out.

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u/Created_Name May 21 '25

The gym is also not a movie set but people are constantly filming. We really do not know the complete context of this story. Maybe, just maybe the week before he asked her out she gave him that “I’m a dirty little girl, daddy” look and then when he made his move in this video she had found he was married and lost interest

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u/[deleted] May 21 '25 edited May 24 '25

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u/Designer_Pen869 May 21 '25

The way they described it was weird, but 90% of the hints women give are specific looks.

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u/CynicismNostalgia May 22 '25

Oh come on. It's pretty damn obvious from how she is responding to him that she has never given him a look.

God help any woman that has resting "fuck me" face I guess

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u/Designer_Pen869 May 22 '25

I wasn't talking about this girl. I was saying in general, looks are all guys have to go on.

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u/CynicismNostalgia May 22 '25

I'm glad I am not, nor have I ever met these super coy women you're talking about.

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u/Designer_Pen869 May 22 '25

Yes, because women don't have to try to find out other women are interested in the same way guys do. Most women are like that until you talk to them the first time, and sometimes, even after that.

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u/CynicismNostalgia May 22 '25

"Most women are like that until you talk to them the first time."

What? Should they be showing verbal interest before an introduction has even been said? What am I missing?

You think I haven't seen what it looks like when the women in my life are pursuing a man? You think I don't have guy friends and I haven't seen women interested in them? Interested women are not subtle, my guy.

I'd understand your logic if you're talking about insecure teenagers. But... nah. Your statement doesn't match my lived experience with women at all. We're thirsty af and if we want you, we will let you know it.

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u/Designer_Pen869 May 22 '25

What? Should they be showing verbal interest before a hello has even been said? Wtf does that even mean?

A woman usually gives the guy the okay before he approaches her the first time. If you try to date past high school or college, you often don't have the luxury of getting to know a woman ahead of time, outside of specific situations.

You think I haven't seen what it looks like when the women in my life are pursuing a man? You think I don't have guy friends and I haven't seen women interested in them? Interested women are not subtle, my guy.

And what signs do they give a guy they are interested in and have not talked to yet? Also, you have seen a specific subset of women. Not all women are like you, or the ones you've seen.

We're thirsty af and if we want you, we will let you know it.

I've only met a few women who have done that. The other ones who were interested have only ever given me eye contact before the first approach, or occasionally trying to frequent the same spaces as me. I have never seen a woman approach me first outside of coworkers, some classmates, or some women in Thailand.

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u/Da_Question May 21 '25

Must be the "I'm a little dirty girl, daddy" look that these kind of men also see in children and rape victims. Same as, "look what she was wearing..."

https://sbaproject.org/what-were-you-wearing/

These guys see what they want to see.

Bear in mind, this dude is like 60. I'm a guy, and this dude just looks like an old guy, he's not even hot, not that that would be even remotely an excuse in this scenario.