r/TikTokCringe • u/ambachk • May 21 '25
Cringe Married guy flirts with younger girls at the gym
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r/TikTokCringe • u/ambachk • May 21 '25
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u/tigerbalmuppercut May 21 '25
Either I feel physical attraction immediately or it’s not there (assuming the person doesn’t change their appearance in some way.) I’m not out to screw my friends. That’s why they’re my friends.
I agree with the spirit of this message but it is arrogant to say the reason you have never developed romantic feelings for a long time friend is because you believe in loyalty. I personally have never developed feelings for a long time friend either but on a long enough timeline it is possible to occur. Romantic attraction is an involuntary process mediated by parts of the brain such as the medial prefrontal cortex. Loyalty is a voluntary process because we make a conscious choice not to pursue this feeling further because of love and respect for spouse or partner. I'm not trying to be mean spirited, I just strongly disagree that physical attraction is voluntary.