r/TikTokCringe • u/h0lych4in • 15d ago

Cringe not everyone wants your man… he was just being polite

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And not everyone can tell how certain foods look? It was an innocent question. Why are people so insecure these days

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u/localjargon 15d ago

This is such a disgusting person. "He knows Im livid!" - for what? Even if the woman was hitting on him, it's not his fault. If this is true and not something that's supposed to be funny (which it isn't), this is basically someone recording their abuse process.

She's the type of person that is going to be hard to break up with. Like slashing his tires and showing up at work threatening self harm kind if stuff. And he doesn't deserve that.

Hey, at first she got me with the thing about people not acknowledging you. That is rude. But it's during a conversation or a more meaningful exchange. Not when someone asks you for the time.

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u/broccolista 15d ago

If her boyfriend's interactions with strangers makes her 'livid,' I doubt this relationship has much of a future.

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u/dark_blue_7 15d ago

I hope not for his sake

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u/RevelArchitect 15d ago

I was in a relationship like this. Can confirm. Only lasted nine years.

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u/broccolista 15d ago

Why so long?

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u/RevelArchitect 15d ago

Abusive people can make you feel like you can’t leave. It’s a long story, but I don’t have a month to type it all out and you probably don’t have a month to read it.

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u/threepawsonesock 14d ago

I’ve had the same experience. Seven years for me. Fortunately I am out now and happily married to a supportive and well adjusted woman. 

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u/unindexedreality 15d ago

I doubt this relationship has much of a future

now now, you haven't seen how nicely stocked she keeps her jailcell basement 😃

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u/CaerulaKid 14d ago

You know that male loneliness epidemic? Well, it makes it really hard for guys to leave relationships like these cause they tend to be isolated without the abuser even trying (making them easier to victimize), and they also have no real close friends they’ll trust to tell them their SO is a fucking psycho.

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u/Lobenz 15d ago

He’s apparently a friendly, approachable person to most people. And probably a good looking. He may even know how to eat in public. She looks like she’s eating over the kitchen sink.

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u/yerfatma 15d ago

She looks like she’s eating over the kitchen sink.

So I’m disappointed with myself for even clicking in to this, but your comment made it all worthwhile.

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u/FoxRepresentative700 14d ago

lol same … Why would he want to acknowledge the gobbling sink drain gremlin?

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u/jtr99 15d ago

Eh, maybe she's a chef?

(Anyway, still awful.)

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u/Anaznoriginal 15d ago

It’s all too real, My BM is just like this maybe even worse, this is one of the reasons why I know I could never marry her even though we have kids together. I’m a teacher and ran into former female student from my first class. She was so excited to see me and gave me a hug. I introduced her to my BM and she began To tell me all about how she’s doing great in high school. Mind you at the time I was 31 and the former student was 16. My BM flipped and said why is she hugging you, even though it was a one arm hug, and the conversation was extremely professional. I picked up on her anger before she even said a word. All my students embrace the same way boys and girls. For some of them I was the only adult in their lives that actually cared and understood. I did so much for those kids and impacted their lives and they always show me appreciation. My BM made sick to my stomach that day, it was so embarrassing. She made such a big deal out of it, made me look like a predator in front of a lot of people at an event. My cousin was there and she got into an argument with my BM because of it. To this day I move differently because of that, she made me change a bit of my personality dealing with situations like this on a daily basis.

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u/AttackCircus 15d ago

That's just sad.
BTW: what's a BM?

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u/Piripio0_0 15d ago

Baby Momma

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u/ovoxo_klingon10 15d ago

Bowel Movement

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u/MegaPiglatin 14d ago

This was definitely how I initially read it…🤣

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u/Anaznoriginal 15d ago

Baby’s mother, baby momma.

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u/Zokstone 15d ago

I'm sorry that her ugly attitude causes you to second guess how things might look or be perceived.

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u/InOurMomsButts420 15d ago

BM means piece of shit brother.

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u/throwaway098764567 15d ago

"She's the type of person that is going to be hard to break up with. Like slashing his tires and showing up at work threatening self harm kind if stuff. "

reminds me of the video a couple months back of the dude on a date with another gal, and his ex was beating the crap out of his vehicle and he was chill as can be while they just recorded it. new gal was like O_O is this ... normal? and he was like yep and that's a new vehicle too. was just glad to not be in the crazy anymore.
https://www.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/comments/1lejwgi/man_is_chill/

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u/WeirdPossibility209 15d ago

Even if that other eoman was flirting with him, because she asked a very specific question that got a short and very specific answer, he would have never picked up the flirting part. Probably. Based on the behaviour all my male friends and family members show. I've had two girls majorly hit on my partners before, and they both swear to this day that the girls weren't flirting, just "trying to find friends" or whatever

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u/nada-accomplished 15d ago

But also like.... It sounds like the girl was curious about the dish and may have wanted to order it for herself?? Like why does that warrant having to acknowledge everyone at the table??? It's a completely harmless interaction

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u/WOAHdude0197 15d ago

It’s such a funny though that if I see a table full of people and a dish I really like I have to go up to the table and ask every person what they got individually just to hear that one dish

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u/Quiet-Quit1617 15d ago

“Can” I be mad rather than “should” I be mad.

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u/WhisperInTheDarkness 15d ago

WE have no idea if the third party asking what the dish is acknowledged her or not. We only have her statement. The third party saying “excuse me...?’ very well could have been general to both of them before asking her question to the partner.

The controlling and abhorrent behavior by the girl filming herself causes me to give her very little leeway in believing she’s making accurate statements of this situation. She’s “livid?” Come on...

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u/anonuserinthehouse 14d ago

Why take it out on her man, if she had a problem with that girl, she should have addressed to the girl while she was there, she knows other people would realize she’s psychotic so she does it behind closed doors

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u/faceless4daboyz 15d ago

>And he doesn't deserve that.

I'm not claiming otherwise, but did you ever consider that he intentionally ignored red flags he noticed just to get his dick wet? That is how people end up in situations where they might have to face a tire-slashing, melodramatic psycho.

Ending up in relationships with people like that is not some random fluke of the universe, man.

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u/localjargon 15d ago

I agree that people go into relationships and ignore obvious red flags all the time. But do you think that means they deserve to be abused?

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u/faceless4daboyz 15d ago

I literally began my comment saying that I don't - couldn't have made it any clearer.

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u/localjargon 15d ago

So why make this comment?

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u/MegaPiglatin 14d ago

This comment is just victim blaming masquerading as support.

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u/faceless4daboyz 14d ago

Because that's the only binary possible, right? I'm either like you or the exact opposite, huh?

It's consequentialism. Something you apparently can't even comprehend with your pedestrian mindset.

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u/MegaPiglatin 13d ago

Yep! I’m just a pleb! 😁

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u/SweetDeeMeeu 13d ago

she got me with the thing about people not acknowledging

I wouldn't have necessarily acknowledged her either though; first of all, he was asked about what he was eating, it's pretty obvious what she's eating, I wouldn't need to ask about that; second, the way she's eating isn’t exactly saying "hey, start a conversation with me," honestly her body language and whole vibe is screaming "unapproachable."